Well, I'm not sure if this happens to everyone, but why is it that after masturbating I sometimes feel guilty and also lose all interest in anything sexual at all. Fourtunatly, this doesnt last long, because Im ready to do it again not to long after.
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Why does this happen?
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I feel ya, it happens to me to! The exact feeling. I don't know why... but I feel like what I just did was gross, and I lost interest is everything that's sexual, but it usally goes away.
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It happens to alot of people from what i've seen i think its that after you come your testoserone levels drop for a short while and you have to give yourself a little time to pump back up
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yup, same here, its like, "god that was fun!uh...what ever, i don't really care anymore"
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yep, happens to me too. I think it has to do with the suddenness of the release and the feeling of total pleasure then it all subsides and goes away leaving you feeling drained (pun maybe intended). some times i also feel like just curling up in a ball for a while afterwards. and the other thing is that after I have the orgasm I feel like I don;t want anyone to see me naked yet most of the time i am somewhat of a nudist and in a pre-masturbation mood some might even call me an exhibitionist.
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Maybe its like an instictual thing thats supposed to make you stop having sex. Or it could be caused by the end in release of hormones or something
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cal, you're exactly right in that it's a hormonal release--but it's not about guilt or having done something "dirty", it's just that the male body did what it wanted to do and was constructed to do: produce sperm and ejaculate. I've responded to a similar thread in the past by saying that I have read that a hormone is released in the brain with ejaculation, but I'm still not sure what hormone it is...possibly seratonin...but whatever it is, it makes guys feel like their job is done and it's time to go to sleep. Well, you young bucks will be able to go for hours with only brief respites after orgasm when you're laying next to a nubile young lass, while us old dudes need a little more recovery time.Long story long....it's nothing to worry about. I can absolutely guarantee that when you have a naked young woman next to, on top of, or under you, you won't think having just shot your load was in any way bed.
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There are two different things here. Hormonal release which makes you not highly motivated to do it again right away (but if you are a teenager you probably could quite easily if you want to -- at my age [62] I am definitely out of business for a while. When I was about 16, I pushed it to see how many times I could in a 24 hour period and got up to about 7 or 8 with a very sore piece of equipment. Notably the second time was without stopping after the first).Guilt could be because you were conditioned to feel ashamed of sexual activity. Maybe, maybe not in your case, but it is possible and it is a separate issue. I know of no reason why you should not continue.
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Wow...7 or 8...that's pretty good.At age 28 I once had 5 and I was horribly impressed with myself....especially since the woman had 8