So, I have a huge problem, everytime I get a new girlfriend my parents will start interogating her, so I just asked out this girl from school like 3 days ago, and my litle brother sees us making out, and so I ask him kindly not to tell our parents cause they will interogate her, and bug us. So he promises he wont tell them and then later at dinner he's like "So Alex, do you have anything you wanna tell mom and dad?", at first I thought he was joking but then he actualy tells them and I'm like "What that ffuck?", just cause he has no personal life doesn't mean he has to fuck with mine. Does anyone else have this problem? Any solutions(besides beating the crap out of him)
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Brother...
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siblings...dealsori no help im afraid,they are wat they are. guess the only contsilation is that wen ur both older ul prolly b close. n that ul b able to dish the same sort of shit to him hehehe paybacks a bitch
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Naw man, I ain't that disrespectful, but he better start showing some respect towards my personal life
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Oh, how I can relate. Whenever something happens at my home, they always involve themselves. Last night for example, we were going to do karaoke and drink, but it's kind of awkward when you have a 7 and 9 year old standing around complaining that they're not getting a turn and refusing to leave. We couldn't pull out the alcohol (my 18th b-day btw, legal drinking age here) until they had left, which was a few hours after everyone arrived. Hopefully it'll get better with you, but don't count on it. You might want to talk to your parents about getting some more privacy though and not having your girlfriend "interrogated" as you say. Work something out with them and say you feel really uncomfortable with them questioning her in that way.
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Just tell your parents to FECK OFF and it’s none of their FECKING business. In reply to: "So Alex, do you have anything you wanna tell mom and dad?" Just say "No"; it’s an honest answer.And tell your brother to FECK right off. Tell him it’s none of his business. If he disagrees go through these stages:Negociate/blackmail Tell him if he EVER gets to the stage where someone actually likes him you wouldn't even think of tell your parents and he should offer the same curtsy.Full on blackmail Threaten to find something really embarrassing, be it a photograph or whatever, and distribute it liberal in an area your brother goes e.g. school. Also tell him if he EVER gets to the stage where someone actually likes him you would screw him over in a heartbeat e.g. tell parents and then put used condoms, easily viewable, in his room.If there is any doubt about whether or not you will do it, do it whether he keeps your secret or not. He'll learn to trust you.Just beat the shit out of him He will probably end up saying what you don't want to say anyway so you should really get your moneys worth beforehand and again afterwards.Kind regards and well done on the DorisMr. Nuts
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I did actually say no, but like I said he saw us making out, so he just told them that I have a new girlfriend. No worries though, I talked to my parents, and they said that they would leave us alone. As for my brother...me and him had a litle game of basketball, which resulted in various facials...he's gonna have to learn the hard way
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Yea I have a sister who would probably tell my parents anything to try and get me in trouble or anything like that.
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What little bastards brothers can be.
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You said it man
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He's most likely jealous that you want to spend your time with her rather than him. As his older brother he looks up to you. Just spend a little more time with him doing whatever you like to do together and don't completely ignore him. Let him know that your brothers and you'll always be there for him. He'll feel a bit more secure with your relationship and eventually leave the two of you alone on his own.
I was once the little brother and this is how I felt when my older brother had a new girlfriend or ditched me for his friends.