Yeah guys. I'm finally doing a story on my life and how my life is. Hopefully someone can give insight about my problems. Alright, Well throughout my entire life I have never had a girlfriend and I have never talked about sex with my mother. You know why? Its because I THINK that she would shun me for that stuff even though she is not exactly a perfect person herself. I dont know why, But there is this mind block that keeps me from telling these sorts of things like about girlfriends that she will just completely and flat out hate me after I tell her. I dont know why.And then we come to my friends. I have some really good friends, They are just generally fun to be around. But the problem is, They are NEVER around. I remember when I lived in a trailer park I had tons of friends. My friend AJ and Justin were both my best friends and we all lived in the same trailer park. But then my life started falling apart because they both moved away almost at once. My other friend Eric isn't exactly allowed at my house because his Dad is a nutcase and he thinks that I was spreading bad rumours about him and just a few days ago when he was planning to stay overnight his Dad came and told him to get his stuff and get in the car so I doubt I'll see him again. I like friends who I can talk to and play videogames with and share my interests. But most kids my age are into sports or are serious jerks. I'm not into sports, AT ALL, So its hard to make friends.And then my father constantly wants me to play sports or do things outside when I'm not into sports or much physical stuff.So, I dont really know what to do now. I dont have any friends and my mind blocks me from doing anything I want to do. Its just like it all fell apart...Can someone diagnose these problems and help me overcome them?
I hate to be prosaic, here, but it seems like you really just need to get out into the world and meet some poeple. I know, for a shy person that's easier said than done...but then again, look at the alternative: you could spend your life in front of your computer and not have any friends, girlfriends or even acquaintances.Take a walk around your neighborhood...say hello to people...visit a store you've always wanted to go in and strike up a conversation with whomever asks if you need help. Don't be fake, phony or pretend to be someone else...just be yourself. I would suggest, however, that you don't say "hi, I'm looking for a new friend". Friends are made when you find someone who shares at least some of your interests and wants to hang out and get to know you as you want to get know them.Best of luck, my friend!
Just a note here: most guys don't talk much about sex with their mothers. She doesn't seem the right person for most of us, except a lucky few. And generally someone of the same gender will have more experience of the issues.I also agree that you should get out and find friends, rather than hoping they will come to you.