I have been interested in this woman for a few years now. We have always gotten along well and I have always felt that there is a mutual attraction between us. We ate lunch together (with other friends too) every weekday and had a conversation everytime we saw eachother at work. I wanted to ask her out so bad, but I always felt that it wasn't the right time. One day I decided to test the waters alittle so I invited her to spend time with my friends and I one weekend. She gave me her number instantly when I asked her, with no hesitation and a smile on her face. When the big day came she was nowhere to be found. I attempted calling her several times, but to no answer. When I confronted her the following Monday she said something like "oh my friends decided they wanted to go somewhere else so I went with them" So I thought she wasn't very interested in hanging out outside of work. Later on in the year she invites me to Orlando with her friends, and unfortunately I HAD to decline due to one of my best friends comeing home to visit from college and I am a firm beleiver in "Bros before Ho's" so I stayed loyal to my friend. Well also a lot of the times we spoke she would often talk about other guys. Infact one of them was a good friend of mine at the time, so I backed off again. Then she started seeing another guy that we work with and now they are married with a child. Its been about 2 years since that happend and I catch word that they are in the middle of a divorce. This girl (since I've known her) has had 4 failed relationships, 1 stalker, and lots of other dudes atleast try to get with her. I feel like these guys only wanted her for her body, which is very nice by the way. I on the other hand other than wanter her body, also love her for who she is too. I feel like we would be a good match if we were together, but I really can't tell if she feels anything like this towards me. I haven't really spoken to her much since she married this guy, so I can't really say if the chemistry is still there. Now knowing our past, what do you suggest I do? I don't want to seem like an asshole going after her while in a divorce or closely after it. On the other hand I don't want to wait too long and she find another guy thats gonna treat her like shit. I've cared more about this girl than anyother one in my entire life and I dont want to screw up and miss out again with her. SUGGESTIONS PLEASE!!!!Thank you readers
well we dont work with eachother we work in different departments now and dont see eachother at all, plus we work different shifts.
"Bros before Ho's" ahahaahah do you watch House?
"I know your into her, but theres a code, Bro's before Ho's Man!"
Stay away, well away. Even if there is chance of anything in the future, stay back whilst she's going through a divorce. I'm young, and know nothing of marriage, but I can only imagine a divorce is like any other break up, only a hundred times worse, especially if there are kids involved.In my little experience people who go through a serious break up aren't looking for that next someone right away. They might go out, go on a few dates, and even sleep around, but they still need time to get over their past love before they start looking for a new one.