I have been interested in this woman for a few years now. We have always gotten along well and I have always felt that there is a mutual attraction between us. We ate lunch together (with other friends too) every weekday and had a conversation everytime we saw eachother at work. I wanted to ask her out so bad, but I always felt that it wasn't the right time. One day I decided to test the waters alittle so I invited her to spend time with my friends and I one weekend. She gave me her number instantly when I asked her, with no hesitation and a smile on her face. When the big day came she was nowhere to be found. I attempted calling her several times, but to no answer. When I confronted her the following Monday she said something like "oh my friends decided they wanted to go somewhere else so I went with them" So I thought she wasn't very interested in hanging out outside of work. Later on in the year she invites me to Orlando with her friends, and unfortunately I HAD to decline due to one of my best friends comeing home to visit from college and I am a firm beleiver in "Bros before Ho's" so I stayed loyal to my friend. Well also a lot of the times we spoke she would often talk about other guys. Infact one of them was a good friend of mine at the time, so I backed off again. Then she started seeing another guy that we work with and now they are married with a child. Its been about 2 years since that happend and I catch word that they are in the middle of a divorce. This girl (since I've known her) has had 4 failed relationships, 1 stalker, and lots of other dudes atleast try to get with her. I feel like these guys only wanted her for her body, which is very nice by the way. I on the other hand other than wanter her body, also love her for who she is too. I feel like we would be a good match if we were together, but I really can't tell if she feels anything like this towards me. I haven't really spoken to her much since she married this guy, so I can't really say if the chemistry is still there. Now knowing our past, what do you suggest I do? I don't want to seem like an asshole going after her while in a divorce or closely after it. On the other hand I don't want to wait too long and she find another guy thats gonna treat her like shit. I've cared more about this girl than anyother one in my entire life and I dont want to screw up and miss out again with her. SUGGESTIONS PLEASE!!!!Thank you readers
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Hard Decisions
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well we dont work with eachother we work in different departments now and dont see eachother at all, plus we work different shifts.
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"Bros before Ho's" ahahaahah do you watch House?
"I know your into her, but theres a code, Bro's before Ho's Man!" -
Stay away, well away. Even if there is chance of anything in the future, stay back whilst she's going through a divorce. I'm young, and know nothing of marriage, but I can only imagine a divorce is like any other break up, only a hundred times worse, especially if there are kids involved.In my little experience people who go through a serious break up aren't looking for that next someone right away. They might go out, go on a few dates, and even sleep around, but they still need time to get over their past love before they start looking for a new one.