I enjoy reading erotic literature rather than looking at traditional porn. Sometimes, I read stories and masturbate for hours without orgasm, I do this on purpose by stopping just short of orgasm and then continuing. The next day, I'm usually sore, as it seems fair. I know that the pain is normal for that length of time. I wonder though, do you think i am doing any damage permanant damage to myself such as desensitizing myself or anything?
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Am I Having Too Much Fun?
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Welcome to A2A, Robby Vanch! It sounds like you're giving yourself blue balls. I don't think it does permanent damage. Psychologically, it's important to realise that erotic literature is even more unrealistic than porn.
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Hmmm sounds liek th estories are too long thus you are masturbating for what might be excessive periods. My suggestion is to reduce the overall time a little by reading short stories or only a chapter at a time in longer ones and make sure you allow yourself release at the end of the story/chapter. You can always pick up where you left off or start a new story tomorrow.
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I know that literature is very unrealistic, i still enjoy it though. Haha, i guess its kinda like fantasy books, you KNOW theyre fake, but they're stil fun to read. I still enjoy it anyways.
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i read A LOT of erotic stories all the time but i usually only last for 5 to 10 mins if im trying that is.
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I 'm a fan of erotic stories too. About 2 years ago, I read so many stories that I programmed my own story reader with many features like random story chooser, and story saver to know where I left each story...It is definitely one of the most satisfying forms of masturbation. Maybe you should switch from story reading to traditional porn and back.
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yea...i like stories but im not really into the usual pornstories r just so much more sexythey can b addictive tho cuz u feel like u have to know what happens or wanna read just one more.set urself a limit. one SHORT story or chapter a night and stick 2 it!
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there's a lot of talk about desensitisation but little evidence.
Frankly if an overload of sexual activity alone and/or with partners could cause desensitisation, I'd be numb from the neck down.Other than the discomfort your causing yourself, it's quite unlikely that you're doing any permanent dammage.
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ahhhh gotta love errotic literature, its the best. i think the suggestion of limiting to one or two chapters a night is a good one
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Thanks unsupervised, this was a lot of help...Rather reassuring, thanks A LOT!
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if an overload of sexual activity alone and/or with partners could cause desensitisation, I'd be numb from the neck down.teehee