Height

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Just been on a school trip this weekend. Met a very nice girl, and she seems to like me, but she is taller than me by quite a bit (maybe 4" ) Does this affect a relationship? Also, what lifestyle factors contribute to height? I'm not asking for a miracle here, although if you know some natural way please tell :P, but what things can I introduce to my life to help growth. I'm only 15, so I'm still growing, but I'm small for my age. Any help appreciated!

It dont affect mine. Im 5 foot 6, and my girlfreind is like 4 foot 3. I dont know of any good ways to help it, Well im sure i do im just not thinking of right now.

Does this affect a relationship?Only if it's an issue with either one of you. If neither of you care, then it's no big deal.There is nothing you can do to make yourself taller.

I am 5 foot 8 inches. My boyfriend is 5 foot 4 inches. that's a 4 inch difference. I don't care. I love it. I wouldn't want him taller at all.

my last bf was shorter than me- hated it. i didnt mind tho. i think he had some idea in his head that the guy is supposed to b taller. i really dont think thats fair personally - iv always been tall. n wat does that say for people at both ends? that u cant date someone cuz ther too tall or too short?? i think its up to u. it wasnt a huge issue with my ex but he did point it out sometimes n wenever we wer near the curb of a road or steps he would deliberatly step higher than me so he could kiss down. not that i minded of corse cuz i got extra kisses lol - so i steered him near stairs quite a bit hehehe lmao

I wouldnt like my girlfriend to be taller than me, id just feel weird.And btw, wear big shoes

height is a physical attribute neither you nor your gf (or bf) can 'fix'. Yes it makes it a little awkward when you try to kiss but who cares, learn to stretch up and she can learn to bend down a bit and th etwo of you will meet somewhere in the middle; it's called compromise.And even if you do get alittle taller as you get older, why worry. If you like the person the heck with minor differences; they wil all resolve themselves anyway. And I know this one is naughty and a little premature since you just met her but when you are in bed together, height doesn't matter.So relax, enjoy her for her personality and the interests you share and the things you can do together as a couple and don't let a mere few inches come between you. (On my that could definitely be taken in a naughty way couldn't it? hehe).

id say it would b pretty common at ur age for males to have not yet had a growth spurt and so shorter then the females. its not biggieu could try sleeping lots haha, i hurd thsat a growth hormone is only produced while ur asleep..dont quote me on that, ask my bio teacheror get that sergry where they break ur legs and several places and slowly and painfully streach ur legs out over a period of time till ur taller.ull grow, give it abit of time. and this is not gonna affect ur relationship

yea, it really doesnt matter, I cant speak from personal experience, but many of the relationships i've seen at my school one has been talelr than the other, there was one and the guy had to be 6' 3" and the gal was 5' 2" tops

I used to think that height mattered, until not long ago actually, was always a great believer that I should be taller than whoever I was going out with, so that I can be their "protector" but, I have to say, love has many faces, heights and sizes, not all of them are going to be smaller than me, especially not as I'm bang on the average height for a man, and, the woman who changed my mind, and who I've fallen madly in love with is the same height as me, which means, in heels, she's always going to be taller... I don't mind one bit, because, I realise it's the person that makes the difference... and actually, I quite like how I don't always have to look down :smile: and, I can honestly say, I've never felt quite this way about anyone before, so, perhaps my logic was flawed from the start :smile:

Anyway, laters folks, hope this helps

That's very true. You can have an idea of the perfect partner, but the real person you fall in love with knocks that all into a cocked hat.