i was raped 3 years ago, and just about 5 months ago i noticed painful 'spots' on my clitoris. they were like spots with dead skin over top. the first thing that came to mind was maybe it was an std, and i thought it was herpes. laltely ive been looking up anythign i can find on herpes, and the information i get doesnt persuade me ot think it is herpes. it only happened once, and it lasted about 4 days. there wasnt any discharge or anything. could it have taken 3 years for an std to show symptoms? any thoughts would help me a lot.