Confused?

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Ok, so I met this girl in my math class a few days ago, and she seemed pretty cool, we exchanged emails, and so on, and began talking to eachother. We kind of flirt back and forth and all that stuff. Then she missed a class, and asked me to come and help her catch up in the library. I helped her with her work, and then we had a test the next period. We both did quite well, and she asked me if i was going to check my mark. I replied with "I'm to lazy" then she said she'd go with me, and smiled. So I said sure what the heck, we checked out our marks and that was about it. I like this girl, but are there any signs here of her liking me?

Well she wants to hang out with you so she's at least interested in being friends, if not more. I'd try spending more time with her or if you want asking her out right away. Depends what you want to do. Either way, she obviously doesn't dislike you and has at least a moderate interest in you, but it's difficult to tell from just a post. You have to make the decision about what you'll do.

Darn, making decisions, my one weakness . Thanks for the fast reply also.

hehe, I know how you feel, I have a pretty non existent social life when it comes to girls, up untill this last month that is, this gal I've known for a couple a years, me and her have started to hang out quite a bit, she wants to hang out with me outside of school (btw, my parents will probly say soemthign liek "YESSS your not gay!" when i tell them) and it all seems like it could go to the next step, except for the weeee ittie bitty fact that she has a BF. damn you other guy!(said liek john stewart)

Lol, I have no problem hanging out with girls. It's the asking out part that I suck at. I think to much about if she says no and stuff, so I just often don't tell them. I've only told one person, it was a 2 month relationship, didn't really go anywhere so I broke it off. This girl seems nice, and I'd like to hang out/go out with her a lot. But I suck at the asking people to do stuff type thing.

awww, sound like she likes you. Not definatly in THAT way but she likes you.
If you deside you want to ask her out please do it. Coming from a girls perspective, even IF she was to turn you down, she'd be flattered by the offer. I know I would be. And does she really seem like the kind of girl who would be mean about it? Ask and just belive she'll say yes :grin:

"YESSS your not gay!"Haha, my parents are the same. Im sure they probably think I like girls. I've never had a proper boyfriend and even my best buddy has acused me of being a lesbian as a joke. Well I'm not gay, I'm just waiting for a guy who I like and who Isn't a complete ass-jerk to come along.

yea, my parenents know I'm not gay, they still for soem reason think im in the "girls are ikky" stage, which is funny cause i been out of THAT stage for... oh a good four or five years now, the other day my stepdad said somethign liek "oh and becareful not to put on colonge the girls will be chasing you down the halls" and i said sarcastically ofcourse, i have no wories with gals chasing me down the hall "Oh...what a shame" and my mom said "starting to think girls dont have cooties?" in a serious voice, i just laughed, im not really comfortable talking abotu stuff liek that wit hmy family, prolly why they had almost no idea i actually hung out with girls untill this year

Haha, yea, I'm sure they know I'm not. It's probably the same thing. I bet they think I think boys are icky or im to shy to talk to them or sumthing.well, I'm not. I just don't like starting up a conversation with a guy as im in that "guys are assholes" phase...and have been for some time. OHHHH I get it, they think I'm an angry lesbian feminist. hahaha, cool.

Well thanks for all the help guys. She said we should definately hang out again, and asked me when I was free. I said pretty much anytime, and she said cool, we'll have to do something. So is it she asked me out, or wants to hang out?

Well sounds to me she asked you out. woooo for you! high fiveJust make sure you follow up on this, the ball is in your court..you know what I mean. Make sure you pick someting to do and when to do it and ask if she'd want to do this/go there with you. If you leave it too long she might see it as you not being interested. good luck

yea, I have to find out from this girl what she wants to do, we were both busy this weekend, but if i dont find out and we dont do something, im afraid we might just sorta stop hanging out again, and i like her

She said that she wasn't free this week, but could do something next week, so we're going to do something after school one day :smile: . thanks for all the help you guys. I can't believe the girl actually came to me for once :grin:

Aww, don't be so shocked. I'm sure your quite a catch

"YESSS your not gay!" lolIf they actually respond in that manner, just tell them it's a passing phase or a way to kill time until the right guy comes along. That should break enough ice to allow you and your parents to talk a little more easily about relationships and stuff. Remember, they are even more uptight about "The talk" than you are especially since they probably already know that you know way more than they do.

Asking someone out on a date is always fraught with uncertainty. We all put all this pressure on ourselcves, worry that we are gonna get duped before we even get the question out and all that. But there is only one thing to do and that is grin and bear it; take what comes and either enjoy the occasion or move on.However, there is one thing to keep in mind. Instead of asking someone on a "DATE" why not just ask them if there are any movies they'd like to see or if they would like to go for a burger at lunch or study for a tesat together or what-have-you. Sort of keep it casual and friendly and don't think of it as a date at all; merely two friends enjoying a mutually enjoyable activity. And after the first non-date or three things will be cool enough for you both to relax.

hahahahahaha yea, "Yay your not gay!" "actually, I am I'm just rather bored, so i thoguth I'd do her while i wait for the right guy". and on your other point abotu "non-dates" they are really good ideas, and the best part? i dont have to ask if she wants to. she already does! Woot! if only she didnt have a BF...

Just ask her out fool! I don't care if you're terrible at it, it takes confidence, and women love it. Even if worst comes to worst and you totally screw up at least next time you'll be a little better at it, and a little more confident.

Lol, well apparently when she asked if i was flirting with her, and I said yes, she said that she was glad, but won't tell me why. So I'm going to ask her out in a day or to

I'm doing it tomorrow, since she asked me like a day ago on the computer, so I'll tell her in person tomorrow.