I was thinking about an ex of mine that I considered a good friend while dating. So after a few years I decided to try and track him down to see what he was up to and while searching on the net, I found an on-line journal from a year after we broke up where he called me a "psychotic ex girlfriend" and a slutty w and that I stalked him. And that he was glad I was leaving for far away college. He couldn't even get the direction I was going correct.Sorry I needed to rant somewhere.What pissed me off the most was that he didn't things such as me not contacting him for months and rarely talked to him. I went to his house that summer to drop off something for his mom after not going by his house since we broke up, and a couple days later he came looking for me to say bye or what ever. Then he told me after we broke up he thought about getting back together with me and that there were problems with his current gf. Then this person contacts me another time. And to add to the lovely mess this guy parks in the middle of the night down the street and walks up to my house when I get home to say bye and have a lil talk. Who is stalking who? It seemed like he still had some feelings when he talked to me back then. Yes this was a long time ago, but I figured we would be casual friends instead he posts some stuff that doesn't mention his part in the scenario. Lieing ex. I can't believe he called me those things. After all the things he did to me that he cna't even think outside of himself to admit he verbally abused me. Uhh...I hate guys, well attention grabing guys.
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Lieing Ex
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He was probably just hurting when he wrote those things so hes defence was to make himself into the victim. I bet he dosn't actually think those things of you but, he still said them..or wrote them so he's far from innocent here.
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Hi there, sorry to hear about what's happened there, I know where you're coming from, and, it hurts a lot, the only thing I can say is that it's just not worth letting it bother you, I know it does, but, just trying to find something that doesn't bother you, or to talk about it like you have here, it took me a long time to talk to anyone about what happened to me, especially as I'm a male... I suffered both physical and verbal abuse, but, of course, when we enevitably split up, I moved out of our flat, and away from the area, but, when I went back, I found out the story had been completely changed around, and that "our" friends just didn't want to know me anymore, because, she'd totally turned the story around, and made me out to be the bad guy, I was so upset, and, I still try not to go out around that area if I can avoid it, I just don't want to bump into anyone who can think of me like that, cause, anyone that knows me will be able to tell you what sort of character I am, anyway, back to subject, I know it hurts, but, it's best just to let it go in the end :smile: trust me on this :smile:
anyway, hope this helps you make up your mind what you're going to do... trust me, it's more than it's worth to pursue.
Dan
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Some people whose world completely revolves around themselves do this - they really think that they are always the good guy.
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they really think that they are always the good guy. Yea, take my sister for example
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"Yea, take my sister for example"Oh God, you've got one too? At least I know I'm not alone! Perhaps our sisters should meet up and spend some time together then slug it out about which of them is right all the time, ha ha.
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She irritating. She has no scence of humility at all and seems incapable of emphathy or seeing any argument from another angle. I'm the complete opposite so I find her frustrateing!!I still love her to bits tho.
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Raven and MDDraco, I think you're both well off out of it, sorry for getting off topic here.Cutes, I know exactly what you mean, in fact I'm going to post about this now cause it's annoying me so much!
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Thankfully, I've been out of that for a long (ish) while now, and, I reached a point not long after as it happens, where I realised I was better off out, took me a long time to trust anyone after that though... but, I've fallen madly in love with someone who is the kindest, most wonderful, funny, and intelligent person I know (also the most incredibly sexy person... waaaaay outta my league... or so I thought) :smile: ... I knew when we first spoke I knew how I felt, it was a really weird sensation, cause, I'm a bit older than her, but, well, she's a wonderful person :smile: and, what can I say, but, I LOVE HER :laughing: heh heh and she is quite literally the polar opposite to what I'd endured with the other lady, who, henceforth shall be refered to as "she who must not be named" as it's unfair to mention names here, and, much as I'd like to, I can't insult her because she's (as far as I know anyway) not on this forum to defend herself, but, suffice to say, my new lady, who is the person who introduced me to this forum is very very much loved by me :smile: and, I know that she'd never hurt me the way I have been in the past by she who must not be named :smile:
Anyway, a little off topic there, but, felt I needed to say it :smile: ... I'm not bitter and twisted, even about what happened with she who must not be named, after all, it was a learning curve, without it, I wouldn't know how badly someone can hurt me, or what to look for if someone were trying, and, it means I have the experience to possibly help others who are in or recently out of the position I was in :smile:
Anyway, Peace, out!
Dan
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Yes, I think we all have a ________ in our past, ha ha, I know I certainly do! Without these people we wouldnt be able to fully apprecite the wonderful gift that's landed in our laps when we fall in love with a truly worthwhile person, so if you want to look at it from a positive perspective I suppose we should really thank God for the he's and she's who cannot be named of this world! (though it never feels like anything to thank God for at the time!)
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"psychotic ex girlfriend" Dont feel bad...my ex bf called me that too. i think its so they canl try and make themselves feel more powerful or sumthing. some people just really need to grow up!