Dudes, i need some really good help here.I've been hanging round with some old friends lately. I see them all at school, but i never hang out with them for ages. Anyhow, yesterday, this lass, who I will call Kate, gives me a hug and we walk round hugging each other like a couple. We did this for about 2 hours and I actually felt like I was going out with her. Kate isn't hugely popular, but she's really nice, and I get talking and I fell for her. Mean while, one of my old pals Derek keeps walking off in moods. Today, i'm told Derek has fancied Kate for ages and is ultimatly pissed off. He's been saying he hates me since, not to my face because i wasn't supposed to know. So now, I have 2 options:1. Try to go out with Kate, resulting in the new group of old friends taking pity on derek and hating me for it. One of my old friends who is slightly biased towards derek is trying to get me to 'leave her the fuck alone.'2. I let derek try his luck, let kate think i'm no longer interested, and sit back in my disappointment. Derek will probably still hate me, and i dont know, so confused.
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Complicated issue...
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Just ask yourself this question.Can you fuck Derek?Always choose the woman over your friends. Might sound harsh, but they would do the same to you. So just make sure you do it to them first! Besides, Derek will get over it. And if he is willing to let your friendship break up over a girl (who might not like him at all, and might like you) he is not worth being a friend.Just my 2 pence.Mr. Nuts
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Forget this post now, I've now got a gf. Thanks for advice :P
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That was quick!
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sweet jesus...YOUR ON FIRE !! is it the same girl youve talked about on here?
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Same one on this post. That old pal that told me to stay the fuck away then changed his mind to say 'Derek's not really bothered' and 'ask her out pussy, she likes you too'I can't tell whether they're wanting derek to start a fight or what, but i couldn't honestly give a shit!