i forgot where i read a post here, survey actually, that asked for first like kiss bj gf/bf stuff like that...and thats when it struct me that im 17, almost 18, last year in high school, and havnt had any of those mean while many people who did the survey, especially GIRLs say they did a lot of stuff before 16so i have come to several conconclusionsthe survey was full of liarsmy life suckssome of those girls are sluts (no one in particular)im normal
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Am i normal?
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Girls tend to be a bit more mature sexually than guys in their teen years. I saw one suvery that they tended to lose their virginity a year before guys on average. Don't think your life sucks just because you haven't had sexual relations yet. I bet plenty of people who responded to that have a worse life than you at the moment. Wait until you find the right person to do those things with, I think most will agree it means a lot more when it's with the right person.
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The Community forum is not the right place to post this question. This particular area of the forums is for discussions that do not fall under the descriptive titles of the other areas of this forum.But to answer your question, there is no normal. There is no standard. There is no right or wrong. People start kissing, dating and having sex at different ages. Each person's experiences are unique to that individual, if two people are given the same decision to make there is no guarantee that they'll make the same choice. You may be lacking in experience compared to some people, but there are factors in your life that cannot be changed. You cannot choose for someone to like you. You cannot choose for someone to kiss you. All you can do is live your life in a way that is good for yourself and for those closest to you. Opportunities shall arise for you to gain sexual and romantic experience, but you cannot choose when.
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Geez boss, I was only trying to be cool...
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If you;re weird then so am I.Im 18 and haven't done any of that stuff...with a guy anyway.And although my friends think thats abit weird of me and I should have a bf, I don't think I care all that much. It will happen when it does, I'm not in that much of a hurry.
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i actually didnt mean sex just yet.. i mean like having a girlfriend...I think A LOT OF people have had a gf/bf before 17 even it wasnt serious
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Yea, I know, that's what I meant, I haven't had a bf befor....little bit sad of me but meh, what ever
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Howdy dude, yep, you're pretty normal, boba has hit the nail pretty much on the head... I was 19 before I had a gf, just one of those things... not that I wasn't mature enough, just wasn't quite sure how to approach people, for that matter, much as I'm good with words and speaking now, I still have confidence issues, very difficult for me to pluck up the courage to speak to someone for the first time.Try not to worry dude, you'll be fine in the end... it just takes time... and, if scarface is to be believed...First you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the girlsLatersDan
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You are spot-on normal, if there is any such thing. I didn't kiss my first girl until my freshman year in college. When I was a senior there was a survey going around that asked questions and assigned points based on sexual experiences. There were 100 questions, and anyone who scored 100 had to be the most bizarre sexual freak on the planet. One of my best friends was a talented horn-dog who had a different girl every week and he scored in the 70s, which meant he had done some seriously bizarre stuff. I scored in the 50s as a senior, but several of the freshmen didn't even make it to 15. Basically, never been kissed, never had an orgasm with someone else present, never had a steady boyfriend/girlfriend, never been on a 1-on-1 date! I wish I had a copy; I'd post it here for some fun. Some people gain experience later than others. Whether or not it's normal, there's certainly nothing abnormal about it.
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Yo man u should let stuff like that get u down i havent even kissed a girl yet man
