My BF is wanting to have anal sex with me. It wouldn't be my first time so that is not what I'm worried about. I had a chance to look into his past and now I'm wondering what I've gotten myselft into. You see, like a lot of young men in college he found himself on someone's camcorder. In video I saw he was at a party having sex with another woman. Again, no biggie, we both knew we weren't each other's first.It seemed like two kids that had far too much to drink and were doing things that they might otherwise not do on camera. But then things went very bad. He stopped and declared to the camera, "Now it's time for the ass!".It was pretty obvious that his partner hadn't had quite enough to drink, because she made it pretty clear that she didn't want anything up her butt. That didn't stop him though, he kept going until he was done.As bad as that sounds I was still surprised when he tells the camera, "If you're gonna make 'em squeal sometimes its gotta hurt.", that was truly disturbing.So now I have to believe that the only reason he wants anal is to hurt me, at this point I don't think I'm ever going to find out. And, what do I do with this home movie?Sorry for the long post but I've got a million things running through my head.
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Not sure where this should go.
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What you describe sounds a lot like a rape, so if it's true, you need to ask yourself if being in a relationship with a rapist is the best thing for you. Whether he wants to have anal sex with you seems pretty well besides the point.
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Hi randi, and welcome. I agree with SteveA - this guy doesn't seem nice. No doubt alcohol had something to do with it, but will he treat you as badly when he drinks?
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Sounds like an assjerk to me.If I were you I'd be worried too.
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A drunken man's words are a sober man's thoughts. This guy is scum.
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omg....im sorry..but its YOUR body and if you dont want him to do thhis to you..tell him to fuck off..seriously.he seems like a jerk. if he doesnt respect you enough to realize that you feel uncomfortable,then he doesnt deserve you. "A drunken man's words are a sober man's thoughts. "best thing i heard all day!
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In vino, veritas.