have you ever ask a friend out someone of the oppsite sex and diffrent race and he/she told you she wouldnt date you for whatever reasons and one regarding your race does that means that person is prujudge or racist?? and from that it made me felt like im not good enough for her or any other chick and no point in asking the girl. and is there a point in being friends with a guys of a diffrent race knowing that you wouldnt date them?
This been bugging me for a long time
First off, don't let it bug you. For whatever reasons this girl doesn't want to date you, they are HER reasons, and not your's. Don't let how she feels dictate how you feel about yourself. If a girl doesn't want to date you because of your ethnic background, then that's HER issue.No matter what a girl- or anyone else- says, don't think you're "not good enough," just because of your heritage. That's a type of shame that you should never have.In regards to the girl, like I said, if she doesn't want to date you, then forget about her. If you feel bad, then you're letting HER issues take up space in YOUR head.
people should not judge people like that
i believe it is wrong
regarding to your question is it "right or wrong to be friends with someone who wont go out with you?"
well that really depends on you.
Did their reason of rejection hurt you that much that they have lost their appeal? i say that because i deffinately would be thinking this if i was in your situation.
Can you be friends with them and ONLY want to be friends with them, be happy being friends with them? The most likely answer to this question is no, because i'm sure you have feelings still.
I was in your situation and i tried to just be friends. Man i was dragged along like a puppy dog for 3 good years. I look back in that time in my life and i hate myself for putting myself in that sort of situation.
If someone knows you reallly like them, and they dont like you, there is a chance that they will use you in some way or another. It happened to me, but I couldn't see it at the time
But if you can be friends and are happy with just being friends and you can move on, then sure! there is no problem with being friends with someone of a different race and sex!
thanks that been one foot in my ass for a long time lol well one way of putting it but thanxs for the abvice!!
A wonderful reply - Grendel_Prime. Very impressive - indeed!![and I couldn't agree more - if that wasn't obvious!!]GREAT BIG HUGCraig!!