Sis pregnat
hey yall, i need sum help.... mii twin sista fucked a guy 2 months ago and she is late... at first she thought it was just bcauz she is a teenager... but after 3 weeks.. she took the test and it came bak positive... i was wondering how she should tell our mom.
she also wants advice on wat to do wit da baby?
can ne1 tell me nething?!
well you have to tell her hopfuly she will not fall down when ya tell her. There is three things she can do if she is. one is an abortion ,two is carrie it to full term put it up for adoption And three have the kid and try to raise it with the father .Tot tell your mom will be hard but you will just have to come out and tell her.
ok... mii sister wants to raise the baby.... i think its stupid bcauz she cant raise a baby at 15... should i try to convince her to give up da baby?
Well she can try to if she wants. If the father helps and your mother also helps its possible to do.
ok well since mii sister and i r twins and twins tend 2 run in our family... is it likely that she will carry twins?
It's possible to raise a baby at 15, but it does impact a lot on schooling. If your parents (and you) are willing to help, it can be done.Though there are many good infertile couples who would be made very happy to be able to give the baby a good home, if your sister gives up the baby under pressure, or against her feelings, she is likely to regret it later. She may never forgive those who persuaded her to give it up. It needs to be her decision.
rite ok... but being a twin is it more likely to have twins? that will def impact the decesion
Probably more likely, but how likely I can't say. I imagine an ultrasound would find out fairly early.
ok... wen should we get dat done?
she told the father by the way... he is willing to help support me and da baby
support you?? dont you mean your sis? or is it you thats pregnant? im lost..
He's willing to help support you? How about the baby's mother?
Not to be mean, but maybe its one of those my friend need help, but inreality themself need help...As for the ultrasound, I googled it really quickly but ya..."Most moms-to-be have a standard ultrasound when they're between 16 and 20 weeks pregnant. But you may have one as early as 4 or 5 weeks or any time after that if there are signs of a problem."http://www.babycenter.com/refcap/329.html
THOSE LITTLE SLIPS USUALLY MEAN THAT SHE IS TALKING ABOUT HERSELF, NOT HER "TWIN". Sorry for the caps.
fine i m tlkin bout mii self... so wat do i do?
please help!
wat do i do?
if i get an abortion, then i m killing sum1
if i dont, mii life will b ovva!
wat do i do!
I guess that's why adults have sex and kids just play. I say if you don't want to get an abortion And you would have to be pretty far along if your saying about killing some one. then I would say deliver the baby and put it up for adoption to a woman who can not have kids of her own.
Doing grown up things comes this responsability. eigther way it will not be easy and it will be painful,but just remember no smoking or drinking while your carring the baby .
im sorry about the fact that you might be pregnant,however...i find it very rude and disrespectful for anyone to lie on here. its not like anyone even knows who you are,so why lie? (and to anyone else that reads this...please dont think im a bitch..i just dont like it when people lie... :frowning: )
hope it all works out in the end.
anyways, if you are pregnant,then when you had sex you should have known the risks. dont mean to sound rude. you do what you feel best ok? if you think you can tolerate raising a child,then do so..but just dont lie anymore...ok? i mean..its only hurting yourself, cuz its hard for some people (including myself) to respect the person who lied.
Again I'm finding myself agreeing with Ashley69 here. I just don't understand it, we're all trying to help you out with your various problems and it's like it doesn't matter because you go and do the complete opposite. I mean that's not what offends me or anything, everyone has to do their own thing because ultimately it is their life.Remember my talk in the relationship's forum with you about stopping, slowing down, and just being a kid (which I'm sorry you still are at 15 years old)? We all gave you great advice, advice some of us have also learned the hard way. And you decided that you'd do what you want. I guess it just pisses me off because now there is a kid involved. Not just some embryo or fetus... but a living human being. A HUMAN BEING IS GROWING INSIDE OF YOU!!!! Because you wanted to have some fun.Argh... sorry... I know your mom & dad should be telling you all of this. I'm just sad because there is no way this situation is a good one. You either have the kid then YOU and YOUR KID are at a disadvantage if you raise him because lets face it, at 15 even with great resources it's still tough. If you give it up for adoption thats also a huge risk because you never know what might happen. And God forbid you abort the baby (just my code of ethics personally).I'ma pray for you... I doubt your religious so don't be offended. I also think you should tell you parents. The longer you put it off the harder it will be and the more pissed off they wil be at you. Start being responsible and proactive and talk to a counsellor and seeing a doctor.I wish you the best of luck.
There's a third possibility, xo_toyoung_ox, which jackfrost mentioned early in the thread and others have since, and that is to put up the baby for adoption. It's one you might seriously consider.
ok ur rite... i m soo sry...i just didnt want yall to think i was a lozawe only had sex one time.. he wore a condom but sum how i still got pregnat... i think i m gonna give the baby up for adoption... its tough but i want the baby to have a good life despite mii mistake...so to all who i lied to about sis being pregnat not meREALLY SRY~!
I know that this is very difficult for you, but you have grown and have learned a valuable lesson. I commend you for your your maturity in seeing that your baby shouldn't suffer for your mistake. Perhaps you can be a role model for others. You sure sound like a wonderful person. Please keep in touch with us.
