Attraction!!!

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well my question is, wut makes a girl attracted to a guy? is it personality or looks? is it different for everyone? if it's personality, why don't u see hot chicks with fugly guys?

I see hot chicks with fugly guys... But, there's not much competition here.

wut do u mean theres not much competition? like if a girl goes out with a fugly guy, she's always looking at other guys and thinkin they're hot

And if a girl goes out with a hot guy, she's always looking around at other guys, thnking that they are hot. A hot guy is hot, no matter if you are already dating someone hot or not.

Men look at hot women IRREGARDLESS of his current romantic situation.Women look at hot men IRREGARDLESS of her current romantic situation.Don't start passing judgement back and forth, it's human nature and it certainly isn't wrong. Are you not allowed to look at other cars because you have one?And what attracts women is 100% variable! Different women like different things! I s'pose the ultimage package is a good looking guy, in great shape, a good sense of humor, caring, honest, respectful, definitely confident, stands up for himself, knows to pick his battles.

I don't think I could handle going out with a really really rediculusly good looking guy. My insecurities would get the better of me with "He's too good for me, he must think I'm too fat/ugly/whatever"

Fortunately for you, a good bf would allay your fears by telling you every day how much he loves you, how beautiful he thinks you are, and, how amazing every moment is with you Dan

"Women look at hot men IRREGARDLESS of her current romantic situation"That's just not true in all cases Hyperion, though I've no doubt it is in a lot of them. When I'm involved and in love I have a genuine disinterest in other men, irrespective of their looks. I would go so far as to say I just stop looking at them in a sexual way. I'm not saying being involved blinds me to beauty, of course if someone is exceptionally attractive you will notice that, but I honestly wouldnt give them a second glance. It's got to have something to do with the love bug..

I was just making a point. Like, that you should not be offended if your with your boyfriend one day and you catch him glancing at good looking women whilst walking through a mall. Most often men aren't thinking about sexual aspects either when they are involved with somebody else, well not usually. Women do it too. It was funny when me and my girl used to go shopping, we'd both comment on how good looking people and make fun of eachother a lot lol.I think it's just such a small issue for people to fight about.

In reply to: wut do u mean theres not much competition? What I mean is there is slim pickings in the physical looks department where I live. So a lot of girls settle for what they can get (looks wise).

i should move to georgia

I get your point Hyperion; Am just saying it dosent apply to everyone. Love you avatar by the way..!

Hehe thx I'm kind of a goof :scream_cat:

LOL. Well, classy women in my area are also slim pickings which leaves me hitting on particular girls here and there locally and exploring nearby cities.

> classy women in my area

ClassyBlackWoman lives in your state.

I don't think there are any sane women (or men) in my area.

Yes she does.

there's alot of pervs and pedophiles in my area lol unfortunately. and this playboy place thingy company that recently opened up two blocks from house is pretty much making things worse. so finding a guys who ACTUALLY has a decent personality and likes you for yourself is like... better than Bush saying something that actually makes sense.

You should visit me.

Girls are attracted to good looking guys... BUT!! they ususally think they are players.... I know its corny but girls love the funny guys, the ones that with their humour make them feel comfortable.

This is true. Funny guys can do well for themselves as long as they establish themselves on the dating ladder and not the friends ladder.