So lately I've noticed that.. well.. I've lost some sensation on my penis.First off, I am circumsised. Moving on... I've always known the head of the penis is usually the most sensitive to touch and pleasure. But lately, for me, that's not been the case. Basically, I've noticed this : the top area of my penis is less senstive,and theres a portion on the bottom side of my penis to the left which seems numb... can really only feel something if I poke at it or scratch it to see if I can feel anything at all. The head of my penis is sensitive - but not to pleasure. If I were to rub it now, it wouldn't be pleasant, because it's sensitive. But when masturbating, it isn't receptive to pleasure, really. Anyway, I really started to get nervous about this when I started to become sexually active with my partner. I noticed handjobs she gave me weren't THAT great... and it took me awhile to climax, even when it was my first time getting a handjob from a girl. And by the time I did climax, my penis felt numb (I know extended periods of masturbation and sometimes lead to penis numbness.) That worried me as it is, but what really set me off is when I got a blowjob. It just wasn't that great. I could hardly tell she was sucking. I felt a wetness around the head of my penis -- and that's it. I couldn't really get off from it, and I actually started to go soft a little bit. Maybe she just wasn't doing it right - true... but still. I expected to feel more than that. I just felt a dim wetness over my penis... and it wasn't the pleasurable heaven that it has been cracked up to be at all.In experimenting today, the middle of my penis on the bottom side is the most receptive to pleasure. The upper portion of the shaft is not.And finally, (I hope you guys are still reading...) one last note: when I was younger (and naive), I used to let the shower head spray water on the underside of my penis for extended periods of time because it was pleasurable. I did this countless times, even to the point where my penis started feeling numb on some occasions. And sometimes I felt pin prick sensations on the bottomside of my penis - but I usually kept going because over all it felt good.Is it possible I damaged nerves before I ever became sexually active? God - I hope not. I'm only 19 and I just want to be able to experience all I can. This thought is really depressing me, guys. Thanks...
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Worried about my penis... (loss of sensation...)
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Another quick addition..The area on the bottomside of the shaft that seems to not be very receptive to touch is also an area where the scar from my circumcision looks a little bit different - like the skin is a little stretched out there. Could the circumcision have resulted in some loss of feeling and I'm just now starting to realize it? Also, I'm not sure if it's normal for one side of my penis to be a lot more pleasurable to the touch than the other.. is it normal for guys to have "spots" like women do?Thanks...
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I have to throw in my lot with your. I've been kinda shy to admit it but I am EXACTLY the same issue you do. Like to a tee, it's kinda scary and reassuring.When I get handjobs it takes forever because I really don't feel anything. Sometimes when she has her hand around my shaft I can feel it but I don't really get pleasure out of it.... like just pressure. And the head isn't even pleasure sensitive anymore.And even when I fly solo I find I don't really have intense orgasms. Sometimes I don't orgasm but I cum anyway. It has me extremely worried but I'm too shy to see a dink-doctor.
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Yeah man, I know how you feel. The first two times my girlfriend gave me a handjob I didn't even climax. The third time I did and I have ever since then, but my penis seems to be finnicky. Usually in the beginning it feels pretty good, but soon after, I'm just like you. It just feels like pressure. And most of the time I don't feel like my orgasms are very powerful.I sometimes wonder if my problem is mental - as in, the more I think and worry about it, the more I perpetuate the problem. Could be. I don't know. I know I worry too much -- but when I feel like something could be wrong "down there", it's definitely something that irks me.
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If she's using too much pressure, the nerve endings get fatigued, and it might start to feel numb. Try having her use light pressure (or at least, alternate heavy pressure with light pressure).