Girls with facial hair? Ugh.

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Ok, so I met this gorgeous italian girl (shes actually italian, moved here when she was 6), and shes really beautiful except for one thing... she has a bit of a shadow of a moustache... I find her really attractive but whenever I notice it, it really puts me off. How do you handle this? I mean I think she likes me, and I like her personality and looks alot, so Id be interested in going out with her. I just dont find facial hair to be a good thing on girls.Help?

That is pretty superficial of you!Do you think your gonna be sexy when you start growing wild ear hair, and plucking your nose hair? I bet she is gonna be GEORGEOUS when her boobs are in her oatmeal, and you all are missing teeth!Help? hmph..Don't be so shallow.

Its not really being shallow... I mean come on.

Ok, I will be nice. It IS shallow, you seem to like so much more about her. EVERY girl has hair, some is just darker than others, and its all over our bodies. We are tought to shave the legs and pits, but removing facial hair is painful...no girl wants a 5 O'clock shadow! Facial shaving just doesn't work. Bleaching is smelly, and can cause skin burns if not careful.MAYBE if you spend the time to really get to know her, you could GENTLY bring it up, and she could bleach it or somthing. But be prepared to get a similar response about your shallowness from her.My core advice though, learn to accept that it is there. If she is really a girl worth having, you will soon see past it.

It probably is a little shallow, but hey, we all have our flaws; you've got your shallowness and she's got her lip hair..Why dont you advise her to have it waxed? Bear in mind though that mentioning her flaw would be exposing your own - maybe she'd run a mile! I dont think you're a bad person or anything; if you find something off-putting that's just how you feel and these things really cant be helped.

I don't find it superficial at all really. He wants to go out with someone that he is attractive too.

Ok, so I met this gorgeous italian girl (shes actually italian, moved here when she was 6), and shes really beautiful except for one thing... she has a bit of a shadow of a moustache... He IS attracted to her. I think it is superficial, if he likes her that much, he needs to look past it. If a good relationship develops, he may not notice it anymore, but if it still bothers him, he needs to bring it up to her GENTLY..

Im only 17.. I shouldnt have to sacrifice stuff really. Theres plenty of other girls, but Im starting to really like this one. I was just pointing out that girls having facial hair really puts me off. Its like a girl not liking some small thing on a guy. And girls dont say youve never found a small thing about someone and it bothered you. Sure, it wont keep me from going out with her, but I will be thinking about it if you know what Im trying to say.

Well, as I said, if you find something off-putting that's just human nature and dosent make you a total b*****ks! But, just so you know, I once met a man and got a look at his sideface in the early stages and thought to myself 'Jaysus, there's a f*****g nose and a half'! I later got fond of him and grew to love his nose..

So youre saying that Im going to love her mini-tasche?

If you really truly fell in love with her, in the most authentic sense of the term, believe me, you would pay someone NOT to wax her tashe..

tell her over MSN or something! Then you won't have to see her face when she learns of all the commotion her stache has called. She'll probably be embarrased too, wax it real quick (or whatever girls do) and then the next time you see her...stache-less! Just a gorgeous Italian babe! Oh yeah!wow...is that the best advice I could come up with? I guess I'm shallow too

Ah, if she has the classic Italian temperment.... She might be mustache-less, but she will be PISSED at you (mostly because she feels humiliated). Sorry, it's just the way it is. I wouldn't mention it; I'd wait for one of her friends to tell her.

Just ignore it dude. girls are not retarded simple creatures (then again at certain times of the mon- OWWW). Ahem, as I was saying... she probably already knows she has a chick-stache. You think you don't notice your own imperfections when you look in the mirror sometimes?When anyone mature or serious wants to get in a meaningful relationship they aren't looking for JUST some fun, they want someone supportive and caring... not someone who critiques them and wants them to change this or that to suit someone else.Learn to appreciate her finer qualities.... she's probably got a few things she could teach you

It's not a tolit paper on the shoe situation, you don't need to tell her, she knows.What do you expect her to do about it? If she shaves its gonna look stupid, if she bleaches its gonna look stupid so eather you like her as she is or you don't.

There was a girl I used to work with who was so damn cute and she had a very small fine layer of hair on her cheeks, right in front of her ears. It was extremely hard to see, but if you looked hard enough you definetly could. It sucked because I really wanted to go out with her (even with the facial hair) but it was one of those situations where I didn't find out she liked me until it was too late. Anyways, it's hard to get used to at first, but just really start to get to know her and it should go away.

seriously, this is why i love this site. every post i can always relate to.

LMAO, well, if us men can have facial hair, why shouldn't women hee hee, DO NOT say "you need a shave" or at least if you do, get her drunk first... and you MAY live to see another day.If she has a great personality, look at that instead of paying sooo much attention to the physical "flaws"

Hey, guess what?Im going out with her now!hehe, shes even sweeter now than she was when we were just friends... Definitely the nicest girl Ive ever been with so far. Thanks guys, I think this might be a good one!

TOO COOL!!But I gotta ask...Does the facial hair bother you as much now??????