Man's orgasm vs. Woman's

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Alright guys, just curious if you guys often think about the things I wonder about sometimes. I'm a guy, and I love sexuality, I think it's fantastic and if its used like I think it should be used, it's a tremendous bonding experience. Having said that, I can't help but wish that for once I could experience sex the way a woman does. Different feelings and sensations, different (and often times seemingly) more powerful orgasm. (Although I suppose that can be argued.) I'm not in any way gay - I just know that as a human I'm curious as to what the opposite sex experiences. :PHave any of you guys ever given thought to that?And this extends to the ladies here too - have you ever wondered what it would be like to experience what a man does during sex? Of course really this topic is pointless - a male will never experience those feelings that a woman gets and a woman will never experience the feelings a man gets. But hey -- I'm bored, and wanted to start a discussion about it.

I think it's an interesting topic certainly Rocky; sometimes when my man comes inside me while we're making love I hold the back of his head and get as close as is possible to understanding (which is different from experiencing of course) what he feels. I love the noises he makes, the feeling of his shuddering, and often wish I could step inside him for those moments to feel what it really feels like for a man. I especially love when he's really loud and vocal with his orgasm, but wouldn’t dream of saying that to him, because I want it to be something he is not conscious of..

In reply to: I especially love when he's really loud and vocal with his orgasm, but wouldn’t dream of saying that to him, because I want it to be something he is not conscious of.. Sex tip of the day. All guys should make note of what has just been said.

I'm sure many, if not most, people have given some thought toward this. Curiosity is human kind's curse.Based on the many articles and random studies that I read, I would think that a female has better orgasms. Not necessarily more intense. Intensity depends on a lot of things.The mere comparison of nerve endings that are stimulated during sexual interaction is alone a spectacle. The clit itself contains 4x more nerve endings than the head of the penis. This may be different to men who are uncircumsized. Foreskin that is removed in circumcision actually contains about around 20,000 nerve endings.I also have to consider the chemicals that the brain releases during sex. It seems that women are prone to more chemicals than men.Though, it's still hard to say. Generally speaking, sex is a more emotional experience to women and a more physical experience to men. I enjoy my states of euphoria after a love making session. I say this with an intention to differentiate a love making session with a sex session. It seems this euphoric state is easier reached by women... but that is just a personal observation I have made without research.This past weekend, my girl said something that kind of pertains to this curiosity. "Sometimes, I wonder what it's like to have a penis attached to my body. It's like this extra thing that's attached." I guess that would match my curiosity of what it would be like to have a tail.

>>>>"Sometimes, I wonder what it's like to have a penis attached to my body. It's like this extra thing that's attached."

Yea, I've wondered that, It would be so...weird.
I think the coolest thing would be if someone told me I could be a guy for a day. I'm just really curious. Also, I'm never going to belive the "guys think about sex every, however many, seconds" unless I experience that for myself because I honestly can't comprehend what that would be like...Uber weird.

I do kinda find males in general really...fasinating. Their brains just work so differently to what I or any woman am used to and I love that. It makes me wanna give all the males in the world a giant hug right now because they are so weird and simple thinking. :grin:

Sort of off-topic (and on-topic, since it pertains to the differences between genders) - but yeah, CuteNCrazy, I'd agree guys are more simple minded than women on average.And I think the reason for this is because when a woman sets out to solve a problem -- whatever it may be -- she usually uses both sides of her brain during problem solving. Men usually use one side of their brain at a time -- simplifying the process a little bit. Studies also show that even though this is a pretty inherent difference in how our brains work (it is a strong trend), the fact that men use only one side of their brain doesn't make men better problem solvers, and the fact that women tend to use both doesn't make women better problem solvers. Male and female brains just have two different ways of approaching situations, and both are equally effective. Which is fascinating to me. :PThe human body never ceases to amaze me. Sorry for going a little off-topic.

I know what you mean, Humans are just...fasinating.
Same with listening, women use both hemespheres of their brain, Men only use one...Which is why I think guys are such crappy listeners so I don't blame them too much for it.

Hey -- We can be great listeners! .....We just have selective hearing. Just don't talk to use while we're playing video games. Women need to realize this is a big deal to us men, and the "listening" function in our brains takes a nap. Conintuing on the subject of how our brains differ - I read somewhere that the average woman is a little more intelligent than the average man, but men are more prevalent on both extremes of the spectrum. Basically, the majority of the stupidest people in the world (barring a handicap) are men, and the majority of geniuses in the world are men. (I have no proof on me now, but I've read it in more than just one publication.) The researchers have tried to attribute this to the fact that men have more specialized brains, and women have more generalistic brains.Donno if it's true or not -- just what I've read. I think it's pretty interesting nevertheless. I love the way guys and gals even each other out and fill in the gaps for each other. When I was younger I'd sit and think about how the world would be a mess if one day all the men disappeared and there were just a bunch of women. Not from a reproductive standpoint, but just how society would function. I admit it, I used to view women as dependent on men.Then I matured, and realized the world would be even a bigger mess if all the women suddenly disappeared. Women rock. Just love the way nature balances things out. Oh jeez. So off topic now.

I've always wanted to exchange bodies for a day or so, i would love to feel how it feels to stroke my shiny new penis LOL and what an orgasm from a male point of view must feel like.........And i have to agree with starfish totally, i LOVE to hear my manthing cum its totally a turn on

me too

Girls only hear what they want to hear and guys drain out everything. I say it evens out.

It might have something to do with how much talking each does. :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

LMAO! I could just see you doing that!! I bet you would have it RAW trying it out with everything! Just like a little boy, walking around holding onto it! "where could I poke it into now?"

I read somewhere that the average woman is a little more intelligent than the average man, but men are more prevalent on both extremes of the spectrum. Basically, the majority of the stupidest people in the world (barring a handicap) are men, and the majority of geniuses in the world are men.Yep, I've hurd the same thing. Infact, my physics teacher told us that today when we were discussing Einstine. Tho he was a genious he had shit all social skills etc

Yes body swapping for a day would be awesome. My girlfriend and I have discussed it. She would probably be worse off the day after. I'd so be playing with my new body and having sex with my old body all day, she would get one raw vagina back.

Guys always say that. If you ask what they'ed do if they were a woman for day it's always "play with my boobs" or " have alot of sex" or "play with myself".tsk tsk tsk

Well, CuteNCrazy, that's what we're most interested in experiencing. Would you rather us gossip with other girls? If you could be a man for a day, tell me you wouldn't masturbate MORE than once? I mean - might as well do it. It's your only chance to experience it

Well what else should I do? Have my period? Childbirth!?

LMAO! I could just see you doing that!! I bet you would have it RAW trying it out with everything! Just like a little boy, walking around holding onto it! "where could I poke it into now?" LOL well in my defense i would only have it for a short space of time ..........ah i admit it i would have to shag anything with a heartbeat to try it out LOL

hehehe of corse