Ok cant believe im asking this here but its anonymous so what the hell.I have fallen in love with a girl whos older than me, the age doesnt concern me at all and she said me being younger doesnt bother her.She also says she loves me .... however she has a bf.... she told me before that she thought it was a mistake getting back together with him and that they should of stayed friends....however now she stays stuff like she doesnt know what she wants and other stuff. Obviously shes still sleeping with him and doing other stuff as he is her bf...I just dunno what todo ive tried to give her space... its coming upto maybe 2 months without seeing her but its driving me crazy.I dunno if im being lead on .... sorta feels like the horse and the carrot on a stick it stays the same distance away no matter what i do.She says she would love to be with me but its complicated as she doesn’t know how she feels about her bf now….Surely she wouldn’t be having these feelings for me if she was happy with him tho ?
So Confused... advice please
I think she's trying to have her cake and eat it too. She's trying out her old bf but keeping you as a reserve.You have a perfect right to tell her she has to make up her mind and decide between you.
maybe but i dont think so.... we havent done anything together other than spend alot of time with each other and talking.
well shes says she wants to be elft alone so she can decide now. She says ive been putting pressure on her.... i didnt mean todo that and wasnt aware i was.
Maybe i did, its just i like her alot and worry she will forget about me. I understand its hard for her but at the end of this shes gonna have someone. I might not tho and that ofc scares me.
I will leave her alone and hope things turn out good i guess.... nothing else i can do.
Just thought id see what you guys think