Alright, this past summer I began working with a girl. We'll call her "M". We got along really well. Then I found out she had a boyfriend. Fast forward to about a month ago. She broke up with him. We have gone to a couple of movies (with friends), dinner, that sort of thing. Everyone at work is getting wise to us. I hear "what's up with you and M"?A mutual friend, we'll call "J" has chatted with M a couple times about us. M gives the usual "He's such a good friend, I don't know if I could ever date him", etc lines.I trust J, but I've recently found out she has a thing for me...I have no feelings for J. So the bottom line is, it has gotten to the point where I have to talk with M and see what she's thinking. If there's no chance with her, I would like to know. I know she is maybe afraid to tell me how she feels, because she doesn't want to lose me as a friend. I don't either. So what's the best way to bring this talk up with her? Any advise would be appreciated.
Bringing Up "The Talk" With Her
first all like confused with all the letter busness. i say ask her somewhere with the just the two of you. then when your alone if she wants to go out, just be like do you want to start going out togther. or just keep it on the "down low" and just keep going out together without really asking. lol
wow, it sure has been a REALLY long time since I posted on here, but i've been lurking for a while.Here's one piece of advice. Somehow get with her one on one (movie, date, dinner, something) and when you talk to her, be sure to tell her that you love her, much more than a friend, as a lover. Tell her that and be sure to tell her that she means a lot to you and that you could make that connection so much stronger by dating her.:)