there's this girl that i like very much, i dunno if i'm on da dating ladder or friend ladder yet. although i KNOW that she likes this other guy. we've known each other since begining of school and i've been to her house once for a halloween party.so anyway this is wut i said : "guess wut? i'm gonna see saw III today woot! u should come with us if u don't already have plans wiht other peeps! "she said:"well its not letting me message you GAH!! i so wish i could go see SAW III!!! i wanna go sooo bad!! but i have a FREAKING TON of homework and i have to go practice baton (we have a HUGE contest next weekend) Garr!!! saw sounds like sooo much fun! oh well.....sorry youll have to tell me how it is, mmk?"so wut do u make of this? is this just a tipical excuse for not wanting to go?
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This girl
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oh btw, we're 15 and wut does mmk mean?
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It's not as bad an excuse as "I need to wash my hair". She may really need to do those things, and be putting her social life on hold. It probably does mean that she's not in a state of deep passion about you, though.
I imagine "mmk" is a variant of "m'kay", the variant of "OK" used by Mr Mackey in _South Park_. -
Try to go out on a date with her and go in for the kiss at the end of the date. You'll know which ladder you're on then.
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hmm i' really confused, how do i get a girl to like me? i usually just end up being friends wiht them. how would i talk to them in a way to get me on the dating ladder?
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There are A LOT of things you can do to avoid the friends ladder. There are many books out there to explain just that. Do a little research. Derek Vitalio has several books, as well as reference to other authors who write about things like this.
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It seems the popular question recently is something to the effect of, "how do I avoid the friends ladder and climb the dating ladder?"It starts early in the process. When you first meet a girl, don't try too hard. Really listen to what she has to say. Avoid bragging or talking about yourself too much. Feed her a little information, and leave it at that. Keep a mysterious element. If you've got her wanting to know more, there's a better chance that she'll hang out with you one on one... essentially a date.The one-on-one session (date) is where a lot of guys have a problem. I think I'll post a thread about this in fact...