With regards to my last post, (Myself and my GF are 22 years old, dating for 3 years)My GF has demanded that I sleep with at least one other woman before we get married. She was my first, you see; so her worry is that if I don't "play the field" and see what else is out there, that I'll be regretful for the rest of our lives; or that I will cheat on her when we are married.I can't say I haven't been tempted, but the idea is odd to me...
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Another cheating issue
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To finish off my post, I most worried about what type of fuel this will add to any pre-existing fires, what type of jelously and hatred would she feel? I don't know if I could morally do it, or the absolute guilt that I would feel becasue of it. I'm also wondering if the whole thing is a trap. I think I'm losing my mind.
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She's a strange one. I wouldn't do it, and it could well make things worse with jealousy.It looks like staying with her would lead to some very unhappy times.
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Just a simple question. Do you love this woman enough to be with her forever?
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Whatever route I went here, it wouldnt be that one. What is her motive in trying to persuade you to sleep with another women? Have you honestly asked yourself that?
I'm sorry to say this, but no woman in love wants her man to sleep with another woman and that is a fact. I'd be very surprised if any woman on here contradicted me in that.
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im with ya there honey.actually my guy n i wer having a similar conversation..thats prolly not for here tho its my story.pm me if u want
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I figure her motive is make me like her, in the sense that I have shown weakness during our relationship. She still does not seem to understand that I am not mad that she cheated on me for the first 6 months of our relationship. It was 9-12 months before we even started to have sex, so I could understand her sexual needs had to be fulfilled.However, I tend to be a bit paranoid, and the whole thing does seem to be a way for her to feel vindicated of any wrong doing.In the end, I don't feel the urge to do it; and frankly the risks outweight the benefits (In all aspects)
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I reckon she feels guilty for cheating on you and is trying to bring you down to her level.
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Aye, the whole situation as I had thought it; brought down to a sentence. Cheers, Joe.