My boyfriend's really big.he's the third person i've been with.and we've tried having sex once.however.it hurt, and i know you have to stretch it out. but my arms went completely numb, adn i was shaking really bad... and i was wondering what that was from?
If the problem is thickness, lots of lube and taking it slowly are required. If the problem is length, he will have to not use the whole length (a cloth "donut" around the penis can help).But I haven't heard of arms going numb, and shaking - these sound like results of acute anxiety.
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