Long time no see - back in the world of females

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It seems you have some work to do... internally first and naturally externally will follow. I'd like to recommend a book to you. The Tao of Inner Peace.

So through some bizarre course of actions, it turns out she didn't sleep with this guy and I still have a shot. So I'm taking it. Tomorrow night she is coming over.So as a final thing, anyone here got any tips for a good way to let her know how I feel?Something that doesn't sound sappy like what I'd say!

no idea im hopeless atm but good luck hugs

Haha doesn't matter. She's cancelled on me anyway. Apparently she's all of a sudden started feeling ill.An excuse I've had used on me all too much in the past.

:frowning: hugs

Asked her. Rejected. Damn.

Fuck it.. Move on. NEXT!!!

I think I must be getting used to feeling like this because it's really not affected me that much.

Thing is I don't think I could be bothered any more. Every attempt I make ends in nothing so whats the point?

Those who shoot you down aren't worth your time and aren't for you. However... when you do find the one.. the real one. Ahhhhh my friend, then you will see the point.Consider this a weeding out process.

I have heard and understand the cliché, but if this is how the weeding out process is to proceed, then I'm gonna weed everyone out!
Either way I end up alone!

(Also, where has this "techy guy" tag come from? makes me sound like a nerd!)

Well you won't weed everyone out. Eventually the right one will come alone.Techy Guy? I don't get it either. I didn't put it there.

HAHAHA I TOLD YOU SO.SHE DUMPED ME. I BLOODY KNEW IT WOULD HAPPEN. SHE BLOODY DUMPED ME.

I'm so sorry, sadbuttrue.

Well shit.. Any reason?

Same old reason. "I'm not ready for a relationship"SO WHY INITIATE ONE IN THE FIRST PLACE?!I've had it with girls and dating. Waste of time.

Did you try to move too fast? Did you talk about things that were too advanced for this stage in your "relationship"? Maybe you scared her off?

Nope. In fact if anyone was doing stuff like that it was her. She was repeatedly teasing me about sex, saying stuff like "I've got lots of tricks I can show you" and "you'll need a lot of stamina to keep up with me".She would of course follow that with "but i want to take things slowly".And she's the one who leapt on me and jammed her tongue into my mouth.

I don't know what to say. Have you talked to her about it some more? Maybe you guys can just date without being exclusive?

She sounds like a whore, to me. My girlfriend makes those jokes - I don't know her too well to tell if it's a joke or she really means it. But she's great so w/e. Don't give up on dating dude. Sure it's hard, but the reward is great!Do you have any residue feelings for her?

I don't think i'd be too good at the non exclusive dating thing. Mainly cos she could get other guys and I cant get other girls so she would end up being a party girl and I'd be sat at home getting very jealous.

I emailed her this morning with no response. I guess she just plain didn't like me.

I am done with the whole girl thing now though. I've resigned myself to never meeting a girl who is right for me. They're either already taken or live far away.

Yeah I spose i still have residual feelings for her. We got on really well :frowning: I miss her loads. It'll pass though and i'll get used to being lonely once again.

Sigh :frowning: