well there's this girl i like as some of you know. but when i hang out with her one on one, she seems to have a great time and we both laugh and play around and all that good stuff. but when we're around a group of people, she just seems to totally ignore me. why is this?
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What does this mean?
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People are often different in a group. They try to conform to the "group's way of thinking". Groups can be better or worse than individuals - in this case it seems worse. It seems she's not confident that the group will accept you.
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I think there's sense in what Ineligable says, but that it's also possible that if you form a stronger bond in private with her she could learn quite quickly to be more comfortable with you in a group situation. It might just be the case that she is unsure of how to relate to you in this situation, purely because it is new to her.
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You need to find out if your on the friends ladder or the dating ladder. That's my advice.