ok so id like to start with im new (this is now my account us to be my bros)id like to say hi and hope to help some ppl while im here too.(I AM NOT GAY OR BI no offense to ppl who are tho)first question:Me and my friend have known each other for 6 years im 14 1/2. And we talk about the usaly stuff games,girls and other stuff (boners beating off and a bunch of stuff.I have seen his boner in his jeans.I wanted to prove to him i was bigger but u rly cant tell.But i want to see his acualy dick (plz tell me if this is offensice)rember i dont wanna have sex i just want to compare dicks and beat off with each other. We arly talk about how we do it and all that. But should i ask him or try to give him advice on what we should do??the only reason is cuz i jsut wanna know what other peoples dicks look like my age and feels like and all that. and he is always showing me his bonner in his pants but i dont know if i sould ask him or not help plz?2.If yes how should i ask him i was wondering what should i say. Wanna go in the bathroom and jack off or what?Ive never beatin whth another friend but i was told by my bro its awsome and after u do it u can talk about anything?3.To shave or not to shave?all my friends i know shaved but i dont know if theere telling the truth because i dont wnana ask them how to when they never even did it. So i decided to ask u guys should and how should i do it?(ps i dont count on having sex for a long time so does it even matter. i just hate getting my cum in the pubes i have alot of them.(P.s i aso agree with the ppl who say that they should not get a boner and beat off to ppls storys if u do then have fun. but i think its kidna wrong to do that to ppls problems. enless it is ment for that which if it is whats the points of postsing)again thanks alot and plz help
Need some help.
Hey Pollie and welcome to A2A (everyone says that; it's a little irritating!). Anyway, the thing you need to consider the most as you debate whether or not to ask your friend is why are you asking. There is certainly nothing wrong with experimentation, particularly at your age. Do be sure that you consider though how the question (or the act) may affect your relationship and whether or not you think it would "change" things between you. It sounds like (from your post at least) that he would not be opposed to the idea so you might just start talking about typical things (girls, boners, masturbation etc) and then ask him, straight up if he'd like to. If you think it might affect your relationship negatively however, it may not be a good idea. Obviously the chioce is up to you and you need to make a decision based on an assessment of how your friend might react and how it would affect you as friends. I know this response is a little vauge, but you are ultimately the one who has to make a decision about your friend. Best of luck to you!
plz close i did it wit him thanks to all the help ill still be on froums :smile: