Me and my boyfriend have been dating 4 11 months, and i am soo n luv with him, but now it seems like i always get mad @ him 4 sum reason, sumtimes its stupid of the things i get mad about. He doesn't really open up 2 me, and he doesn't really say nething really sweet like he use to. He tells me he loves me, and i believe him most of the time, but there r times when i think he doesn't mean it. I wish he would tell me wuts going on n his head more. I kno i ALWAYS tell him wuts going on n my head, i am pretty open with him. It seems now that we got no time 2 hang out alone 2gether. @ the beginning of the school year this year we hung out everyday, bcuz i rode with him hime n his car. Then after a month goes by less and less i get 2 c him outside of school. His car is busted right now, and has been 4 the past like 3 weeks, so bcuz of that i don't really hang with him @ all after school. I wish i could hang out with him more than we have been 4 the past few weeks.Do ya'll think its wrong that he is friends with his X girlfriends best friend still? They went 2 a hockey game once 2gether 2 meet up with his friend and her friends, and he paid 4 her ticket! Which that kinda made me made. I don't care if he wants 2 hang out with a friend thats a girl as long as it just a friendship, but she just bugs me! Plus they r going with his other friend 2 a concert n December, which my boyfriend knows i like one of the bands that gonna b thurr and he didn't even bother 2 invite me, which made me mad 2.I have 3 classes with him @ school, which he told me 2 get n those classes with him. And now it seems as if he doesn't even want me n those classes with him @ times.He is freaking me out. I dont kno if i am just worrying 2 much. I'm scared i am going 2 lose him. And i dont want that 2 happen. Even though i kno he is 2 much of a wimp 2 breakup with me, cuz he only broke up with 2 girlfriends he had out of like the 6 he ever had.Soooo wut do ya'll think?
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11 months 2gether and scared our love is fading
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He sound fickle. I was going to say if he just lost interest, then there might be some redeeming ability; but it appears to me that he has found interest in someone else.Indeed, I think you are correct; he is too cowardly to break up with you directly, so he's trying to get you to do it. Also, it's like he's trying to have his cake and eat it too...having two gf's at once.What he has done to you is very cruel, but it sounds like he'll probably do that to a lot of others before he is done. I think you may have to count your losses for this one and call it a day. Best wishes to you, though.
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Have you spoken to him about any of this? Has he any idea how you feel?
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I know how relationships are like in the beginning and it never feels like that forever lol. But you can do little things with him that are special to make you guys feel like you did in the beginning of your relationship.You should just talk to him and tell him how you feel. And be calm when you say it to him because it could easily lead to a fight. Just ask him about the girl and how he really feels about you.If things still don't work out then you two should break up. It's better to of loved and lost than never of have loved at all, right?But I do hope things work out for you.