so my boyfriend and i were messing around last night and i thought i was ready to have sex, but when he tried to go in me, he couldn't go in fully because i am too tight... so i am wondering, am i still a virgin?i'm assuming yes for the most part, but i am also wondering... did anyone else on the board need to try multiple times with their girlfriends or have their boyfriends try multiple times before they were able to have sex?thanks
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De-virginized...?
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My friend had this same problem.I said yes she said no. I cant really tell you.I think no, but thats me.If you read posts here alot of people have a little trouble getting it in.Just go slow and get comfortable.
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yes it's not uncommon to have problems the first time, it doesn't necessarily mean you're too tight, i think that even if the penis goes in part way then you're no longer a virgin
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It's common for the guy not to be able to get fully in the girl when they are trying sex for the first time. Both are usually nervous, and nerves make a guy less hard, but they make a woman tighten up, especially once the process starts. After all, you're not used to having anything that far in - the body gets tense about it.
I don't think the concept of vigin versus non-virgin is very helpful, myself.
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nobodies a virgin cause lifes screwed us all.loldoes this really matter to you that much? i have no idea wich you are my advice would be to keep trying and then you'll know for sure
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okay, so my boyfriend and i tried again last night, and i still couldn't handle all of it... i think he maybe got like half of his penis in! :\thanks
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Is he exceptionally large? Are you exceptionally small?