Ok so basically me and my bf have sex a lot, and I get very turned on mentally etc. However I just don't seem to get as wet as I used to. Like before we started having sex or doing anything besies making out. I'd get wet from just kissing him and like thinking about sex. And even when we first started having sex, I still got wet easily, although not as wet as before. But ever since I got sick with a sinus infection then yeast infection (which I'm not sure I cleared up, I just took second dose of treatment), I have noticed a big difference in how easily I get wet. In fact sometimes I don't get wet at all, even though I want to have sex etc, i just won't get wet. Now I'm thinking some of this is because I no longer get alone time with my bf, so we always have to sneak around and have sex. And I think there's something in the back of my mind that makes me worry about getting caught, how much time we have, etc. However this also starte before we stopped having alone time together. I dunno is it something mental?
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Wetness/Turned on?
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I forgot to mention, I don't get wet when I masterbate, which is rarely now, from clitoral stimulation. It only happened when I would read erotic stories or have intense thoughts, or just touch myself lightly. So even though I orgasm from my clit, I don't get wet from it, so if my boyfrien spends a few minutes rubbing my clit, I won't get wet, but I get very turned on and close to an orgasm. Well I thought I'd include that, incase any one had suggestions.
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Well like everything else i think the more you do it the more routeen it becomes. so when you first started getting wet you never did it before ,but now you did alot more so the newness so to speak is wearing off. Tha's what I think .
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For girls, arousal (getting wet) is a lot more mental than physical. For guys, it's a lot more physical(touching, kissing, etc.) The fact that you also have the problem when masturbating would lead one to think that's you're moving too quickly. If you're feeling rushed, that could have a lot to do with your inability to get wet. It generally takes girls alot longer than it does guys to get ready for sex. We're like OK baby, let's go.