Confused and stuff and like yea ya know?

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Im just gonna dive straight to my problem here..
My 'girlfriend' of whom i have never met since starting to go out near 2 years ago, is really just getting annoying.
First off all she ever talks about is sex, she is constantly horny and i mean pretty much 24/7. She also recently said she thinks being a prostitute would be great cause she would get paid for what she likes most, though i just brushed that off as joke/wind up, which wasnt funny.
I cant seem to have a decent conversation with her because of this, shes also a moody person and always stresses at me for no reasons (not just once a month :grin:)
Also shes getting a little vain, and though im flattered that every guy at her college thinks shes the hottest thing they have ever seen it gets annoying when she says things like "you know if we broke up you would never get someone as pretty as me". Saying i dont have a chance because everyone thinks im not a pretty sight (i know this aint true, but i aint vain either lol)

She also sometimes says things like "i kissed someone else" just so i will get pissed off with her until she gets what she wants, which is for me to say i dont wana go out with her if she cheats, only for her to say something like "it was just on the cheek just a friendly kiss". - pretty much making a spin on the whole thing.

And finally she also says things like "why dont you like/love me anymore" alll the time when she knows full well i love her.

I know she loves me and wouldnt cheat on me but im getting sick of s**t like this :angry:

The confusing thing is no matter how bad she treats me i dont know why i have never ended it.

My 'girlfriend' of whom i have never met since starting to go out near 2 years agoCould you explain that?

well its like we met on the internet and used to talk alot over msn and the phone and we seen each other on webcam and that, but for some reason everytime we have a chance to meet something comes up. And recently i just dont feel like i want to see her cause the way shes been acting.In the beginning it was her mum that wouldnt let her see people she has met off the internet but recently im just not sure of the reason.If you want anything else explained or if that wasnt explained well then i shall explain anything

So you've never actually met this girl in person?I think you should talk to her about it. Tell her what you think about what she has said to you and try to work everything out.If you don't want to do that then I think you should break up with her.

This sounds like a hopeless situation. There's no need to torture yourself.In so many cases, when people know each other romantically for a long time on the Internet or as penpals, there's great disappointment when they finally meet. You can't know the whole person on-line, no matter how long you correspond. Meanwhile, you lose out on one of the most important parts of a romantic relationship: the touch of the other person.

I refuse to believe that there is usually disappointment when meeting a loved one from online. I refuse. People can know you online as much as anyone could offline, possibly moreso. The whole point of meeting someone from the internet that you've been in a relationship with is to introduce the physical aspect into it. Sorry if I seem like a bitch, you struck a nerve.

I'm not saying that it can't possibly work; of course there are some successes, that eventually lead to physical relationships. But a long-distance relationship is a stress, and stresses on relationships tend to increase thier failure rate. Not having physical intimacy with the other person (I'm not talking about sex), not being able to see the other person's body language when communicating, not being able to fully know the other person, make it very difficult. The urge to cheat is also greater, and more difficult to catch. All in all, sacrifices have to be made.There have been many cases I've read about where people have had intimate on-line relationships for months, and just did not click when they met in real life. As I said, it's possible to make a go of it, and it might work out, but the odds are against it.

An example of a succesful online relationship would be Angel and her husband.An example of a not-so-succesful relationship would probably be Mr.U's ex and her perverted socialising with a 17 year old.

We need more datapoints. I wonder how long Angel and Manthing were on-line pals before they met.

Okay, to me, it sounds like this girl has some insecurity issues. All she's trying to do is get you to tell her how happy you are with her, how much you love her, how pretty she is, she's testing you to see if you'll get jealous.... And she may be insecure for several reasons, like having an online relationship in general, or maybe it's just the college thing. Whatever it is, you have to ask yourself if you can deal with her issues until she gets over them, if she does at all.

I think i agree with you ajmakoko, i was just thinking that today.It would make sense if she was insecure.I do believe this relationship can workout, even in person though however its just im not to sure how or what i should say to her

She p***es me off so much!! Today she was jokingly talkin bout some guy she had sex with once.I really couldnt care less who she has had sex with, just another example of the kinda things she likes to do.But whenever im about to bring up the stuff that bothers me she acts well nice, its like a 6th sense she has and then i dont wana bring it up cause i wanna enjoy the moment lol

I talked to my guy online for about 3 weeks before we actually met up and got together. We're still together over 2 years later we never ever chat online anymore. Maybe once every 2 - 3 months we might actually be at home away from eachother and online at the same time. Not often! lol! To the OP - if she's acting like that I wouldn't stand for it, especially from someone you haven't met up with. She's just trying to make you jealous.

Ok things were looking good up until last night, not only was she snobby and damn right nasty towards me shes also a racist!!
So i have had enough and i think the only option i have is to break up with her. :angry:

well, I'm going out with my gf who i've never met in person, met her over msn, well her sis, my freind, added her

Ok things were looking good up until last nightI thought things were looking pretty bad for a while.> First off all she ever talks about is sex, she is constantly horny and i mean pretty much 24/7. That seems pretty stressful for a not-real-life relationship. What do you think is keeping you from splitting with her? Do you think you'll never find another girl?> So i have had enough and i think the only option i have is to break up with her. You going to really do it?

The pharse "going out" sounds kind of funny when used with a cyber-girlfriend. I hope all goes well, but you never know what will happen when you meet someone in real life. At least you're not waiting years to actually meet.

You make a good point, well things looked good after like a couple of days ago and i thought things were going in a good direction but they went all bad again, i have no idea what keeps me from splitting with her, it isnt that i think i cant get another girlfriend and to be honest im not actually sure what it is?Perhaps i will feel guilty, i think thats it and i i know thats stupid seeing as she deserves it.And im not actually sure if i will break up with her, i mean i have done it before but always ended up getting back together But i really want to break up with her, she really must be the worst girlfriend ever!!!

> i have no idea what keeps me from splitting with her

Figuring out the answer to that question should be the number one priority in you life, or close to it. You're almost 18. What do plan to do with your life now?

I plan to further my education so that i can have a decent job when the time comes.Oh and Education > RelationshipsMore important how i see it.