I think I like girls

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so I have a boyfriend....and I love him...but I think I wanna try and be with a girl. I don't even know how to approach this...its cheating even when its with a girl cuse i know my boyfriend would get mad but i dont want to break up with him. I don't want people knowing...especially my friends that I would be into girls at all...im not into my friends like that but I wanna find a cute innocent preppy girl like me to like be my friend and maybe a little more than that..like dirity little secret...what am I suppose to do about this? I dont even know how to go about meeting girls.

It's hard to say that you "like" your same, (or even opposite) sex based on a sexual urge. In this case, since you've never had a homosexual experience, it's more curiosity than anything else.

Being able to "like" a partner based on their gender depends more on the emotional connection that you feel with them, rather than the sexual aspect of it.

It is rather delicate to propose this to your BF though, frankly. It may be best to try and bring it up during conversation, or even if you watch porno with him (and there is a lesbian scene) bring it up then.

I'm strangely aroused by this thread. Please, let me know the details of how this turns out. pictures would be a plus!

this isn't the place for soliciting pictures, or for cheap thrills ........

Rats, my plan is foiled! To the refrigerator batman, I'm hungry.

I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. ALOT of young people want to experiment. I had an interesting relationship with another girl when I was younger, it was just us wanting to experiment and it was fun but I grew out of it...I like guys alot more now.As for going about finding a chick, I think it just happens, My mates bi and she just meets girls at parties...And I'm sorry your friends are so narrow minded that they make you want to be so secretive about it.

Rocked, grow up and have some maturity ffs. Geez what a perv.Anyway, what you have to do is decide how seriously you want to take your urges. I have a chick friend who just got over a bad boyfriend and now she is swearing all men off and becoming a lesbian (sounds like a bad reason to me). If you simply bored of men then maybe you need to take a break from your current relationship. Maybe it is just the particular man your with (not to offend you, just making a list of possibilities). Or if you feel strongly attracted to women and still want to be with your man then perhaps you are a bisexual (shut up rocked) and perhaps you should talk to your boyfriend about how he feels about it. Not every guy would be super excited to find this out, some would jump for joy... so ya gotta be delicate when ya do tell him. It's a serious matter so I wouldn't recommend blurting it out while your watching porn. I think being a "big girl" and just sitting down to talk about it like a mature person (and I am sure you are =D) would be the most helpful to you.Good luck!

Who are you?

its normal ur curios if u relly do want to do it though just tell the girl yourdoing it with about it NO one else! unless n seriusly i mean this, ask the girl first but if she says yes let the boyfriend watch. he definitly wouldnt be mad, he would enjoy it.

Wondering1; how do you assume he'll enjoy it, and won't be offended?You must be in a very odd fantasy world where everyone is able to put aside jelously, and seperate love from sex. She already knows how he would feel about it, trying to convince her otherwise could be disastrous and dangerous (Depending on how he reacts to being cheated on, or even worse, thinking that he is so incompetent that she would seek out a homosexual relationship)Hyperion had the best advice...see what comes up in a conversation sparked by porn. Test the waters before diving in, eh?

Originally Posted By: HyperionRocked, grow up and have some maturity ffs. Geez what a perve.Sounds like someone can't take a joke.I thought it was quite funny.Anyways, there would be no easy way of leaving your boyfriend and him finding out that it was for a girl would make him feel even less significant. You just got to find a way.And who cares if people know you want to experiment, if your friends thin kof you differently you better start thinking about who are your real friends.

You.. COULD... Try to arrange a three-some =)

GAR... i wish people wouldnt use "love" so lightly... i mean, come on, thats totaly taking atvantage of your boyfriend... i mean, is he allowd to go and have sex with girls that are hotter than you, just because he has the urge to?

I swear I've already replied to this thread... maybe it was in the time we lost.

In my opinion cheating is cheating, regardless of the gender of the person you hook up with.

So yeah, don't go experimenting behind your boyfriend's back!