Court yesterday!

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WOO HOO!! *happy dance*
Well, I went, all worried as usual. I knew it would be fine, but I don't ever want to see my ex husband again. But with a child in common, I have to at least in the court room.

WELL, he didn't show up!! I won! I won EVERYTHING I wanted!

The Cake:
I have full custody of my baby, and he can only see her at my discression...which is like NEVER...he molested his other daughters for so why would I want him around my princess!?!?

The Icing:
I also won some money, it was from an accounting mistake when we were splitting the marital assets. I was going to let it go, because like I said, I wanted to be done with him...but the judge said I wouldn't have to see him. I could collect (if I choose) via mail, and the sherriff department.

The Cherry on top!:
When I got home and called about (because there were a few as worried as I) I found out that his girlfriend is leaving him too! She found him snooping the internet looking at underage girls...

The Drizzling of Chocolate Syrup:
I got on the child support website, this morning, and found that he made a payment...I haven't seen a dime from him (except from the assets) for a year or more..

The bestest part ever is my baby is safe...my tummy is still bugging around this morning!!!

Sounds like you're pretty damn happy! And so you should be, thats a brilliant victory for you! Well done!So, I suppose I'm invited to the party...

Good going girl, I'm delighted for you, xx.

LOL, of course! the only things missing is the whipped cream, and ice cream if anyone wants that!! Either way, bring the cream!!!

come in with cream and sprinkles WHOOOHOOOOO darlin, good for you, that should make you smile lke a big smiley thing in a smiling competition that won't a big smiley first prize starts the dancin and waits for the glitter to fall as it inevitabely does

Did someone say cream? That is wonderful news darling!! big hugs

Haha, we posted at the same time. Dirty minds think alike....or something like that. throws glitter

I forgot ALL about the glitter!!! YAY!

Wait. He molested his other daughters and he was still allowed to be around children? Was he ever punished for this act?

you forgot about the glitter!!!!!!!! shame on ya!

Thats FANTASTIC!!! Very happy to hear everything went your way. Great BIG hugs Awesome awesome awesome!!throws glitter with the rest of the gang

Not exactly CBW. He has a right to see his kids. GOD only knows why we are so messed up here.He isn't allowed to be alone with anyone under 18. ALONE being the opperative word here. So it was set up for him to see our daughter at the counselors office that she sees, that way she had someone there she trusted. Well, he never fallowed through, because it cost around $70 an hr. Insurance won't pay for supervision, only therapy. AND it was set up so that as long as he had the $ he could see her as often as the counselor wanted, I had little control.Yesterday he lost that...I have total control.

mmwwwaaahhhh!!!!!

*delivers more than the minimum required cream on top*

it took a long time but you prevailed

I can even leave the country with her wink whatcha doing next saturday night? Know any good babysitters?

I'm free and my 14yo neighbour has her certificate... good to go

YAY!Certified and everything huh?

Happy for you!Just be a bit pickier next time, okay?

Of course, Damien I will!!!

It has not even been a month!!!My ex, is up to it AGAIN!A month ago, I thought I had it all settled, and now he is dragging me back to court. I THOUGHT I won the rest of the $, but good luck collecting it. I THOUGHT I had my daughter free and clear in a safe enviroment from him. I THOUGHT it was over for a while anyway...He wants visitation, he wants his child support reduced, and he doesn't deserve it, nor does my daughter. He screwed up BADLY, and now, he is just trying to make my life miserable. WTF!I have to admit, it is working, at least to a degree. I am SO angry right now, I feel like exploding! My stumache is doing the chicken, and I am shaking. I wanna bawl, but that won't help.This jerk doesn't even want to see his kid, he just wants me to be miserable. He has had 2 yrs to see her via her counselor, (has not seen her in almost 4yrs total)now that she doesn't go he wants to slide in and do it at some family center shit, I DON"T think that is safe for this guy! He is a goddamn pedofile! an arson, and just plain bad tempered. What if he runs with her from this place? They aren't equipped to keep him there! What's worse, is she is JUST hitting his "favorite age" of about ten. I can't handle it anymore. So, I cope, but WTF!?!? How can the court allow him to keep dragging me in, and allow him to keep me up in arms SO much...he filed the last action, and didn't show up to mediation, he didn't show up in court. And that wasn't the first time. For 5 years or better he hasn't done anything that a MAN would do. I have a restraining order yet, they allow him to harass me through the court systems?? I don't get it!I am gonna be sick. Not a month ago I was releived and beside myself with joy and now...For FOUR bloody years, this is how its been, just usually not so quick...No wonder I get such severe bouts of depression... Anybody up to a fishing trip with him? But I hear chumming is illegal...Bastard! Merry F-ing Christmas to me!!

Do you have a lawyer, Pepsi? Put it in the hands of your lawyer and leave it to him/her.