if ur in a relationship and u know ther not the one...wat ya do about it? u love them but u kno that thats just not the person ur gona b with long term.
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Not the one
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ride it out...why ruin a good thing is one of the many rules in my book. not every person *or as i think* you go with has to be the potential one. a realtionship is something you go into to be happy, and if that isn't happening then you pack up and move on. MR/MRS RIGHT will come eventually, no need to go rambo style and hunt them out.
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My sister bent my mind asking me that same question some months back, over and over, in as many different ways as she could word it. I was ready to pull my hair out by the time she decided to make him Mr Right Now, ha ha!The way I see it you've got two choices: You can leave him and be single so that you're available if the 'right one' does come along, or you can enjoy it for what it is and dont get too stressed about the situation. If you go for option two and he starts talking marraige and babies though, I think it's only fair to point out to him that you dont see that as being a direction you think your relationship is likely to take.
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Well, not every person is going to be "the one" but unless you're looking to settle down and have babies right at that moment, there's no hurry to be finding "the one". I wouldn't dump the guy
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I break up with them. My reasoning is I don't want to play games or waste each other's time. If we're not right for each other, then I want her to have the freedom to look for someone that is right for her.
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thats kinda wer im at.wel wer i was at..just tryn to figure out how to say it. apparantly tho he figured it out cuz he was really quick to suggest breaking up wen i asked wat he liked about me.
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Interesting... so what happened? If you don't mind sharing.