My small penis...

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... (i believe) has been affecting the quality of life ever since the end of junior high school (when sex wasn't an issue for me) up until now. during this period i've had many experiences with girls (especially in high school) who were willing to have sex with me and who wanted a relationship with me. in each case, i have shuttered myself away to purposely miss the opportunity because i always felt that when she found out about my size, she'd realize that she's made a mistake and that this is not what she wants.therefore, i am a 22 year old 4-year university graduate virgin (yes, that's right, 22) who has not had a relationship for a long time.also, i'm leaning toward believing that i will never grow anymore than what i am now since i'm friggin 22, which is an age when most people are done with puberty and don't experience further maturation. i'm only leaning (not firm) towards believing this because many people say that i look 17; so perhaps i'm a late bloomer and i do have some potential to mature more and grown some. however, looking this young at 22 may have alot to do with how much weight i've lost ever since i've become a health freak. i just don't know.and to answer your question: well below 4 inches.everyone, please give me some advice. what is my solution?

Welcome to afraidtoask, forthisforumonly.At 22, much more natural growth seems unlikely. But have you been examined by a urologist and had your hormone levels checked? If there is a hormonal problem, it may still be possible to do something about it.But let's suppose that nothing can be done. Yes, it's a disadvantage. But it does not mean you have nothing to offer a woman. Women can be given lots of pleasure with fingers and tongues, both of which are pretty short, so you can use them too and your penis. You can be a lot better in bed than hung guys who think they don't need to do anything more than stick it in. Furthermore, you have your personality, and that means a lot to a woman.There are people paralysed in wheelchairs. Should they eschew all relationships? No, and neither should you.

ok, this is weird. i measured my penis just now to be just above 4. I'd say 4.2. And girth is 4.
do you guys think something is wrong with me?
and what kind of condoms do you recommend me?

If you're growing, that's good and be happy. The slimmer condoms should fit you fine - they tend to describe themselves as slim or "better-fitting".

I have a friend who's been seeing this guy for a while and he is 23 going on 24. Naturally, friends talk about sex life and she tells me that his penis is really tiny, like one to two, I'm sure it's more than that, but the point is, it's really tiny...most likely from literally drinking every day, lol.

She said that doesn't really matter to her, although that sucks, because she likes his personality and him as a person. And even though he has a small penis, he knows how to work it, she tells me, lol. I guess what I'm trying to say is you're not alone out there. Well, if the girl likes you for who you are, then I wouldn't say that's a mistake if it was the right time for the two of you, I suppose. Have you looked into growth enhancements? I'm not sure what else to tell you, heh.

And even though I'm a girl, I look young, too. I'm 21, but I can definitely pass for a 12-year-old. I've actually gotten from 12 to 23, lmao.

Anyway, I hope whatever you decide works out for you.

All I can say is dont give up hope, I did My penis length hasnt grown for a year and a half and just recently I measured and I'm 4.5-4.7 inches long, Although you feel up against it their are some extreme cases (by extreme I mean really rare) in which people have grown into age 26, my aunt told me she had a patient growing at 26 (height wise) Like they said, at 4.2 inches your jsut as long as any fingers, and they do the trick don't they?

Originally Posted By: IneligibleIf you're growing, that's good and be happy. The slimmer condoms should fit you fine - they tend to describe themselves as slim or "better-fitting". haha!

wtf is so funny???

If you're in a relationship with a girl, she won't leave you for the size of your penis. If she does, than you're better off without her. Don't let this ruin your life! I know this is easy to say, but be happy with who you are. I would never leave a guy I liked because of the size of his penis.

Dude,You're just fine! Your size doesn't matter. I have never met someone who whips out a ruler and measures your dick before they will go out with you or have sex with you. If they did, they're really shallow and not worth your time... I really wish men would never measure their penis size. So many men think of it as if they were measuring their masculinity or them as a man. I have known some awesome great men with below average size dicks and they were more of a man than most. Don't feel you got the short end. Learn how to use it because sized is not everything.

you guys are great. thanks!

Well thanks. But what we said was all true. I know you don't believe us 100 percent, but you will see as you go thru life we were telling you the truth.Say it with me... The size of the penis does not make the man!

Quote: Say it with me... The size of the penis does not make the man! Its how you work it

Sorry for a late-ish reply, just had to chime in. I agree with Roc wholeheartedly.. I wish men would never ever measure their penis! Size does NOT matter at all. As long as you know your stuff, it's all good :smile:
I couldn't care less how big a guys tackle is when I'm with him, it's the guy that counts.. looks fade, when you get old you most likely won't be able to use your bits to their full any more - enjoy what you've got now and be happy :laughing: