hey everybody! i really need some advice! ive been going out with this girl for 2 months. I took her to the movies and as we were sitting down i grabbed her hand and i held it thruout the entire movie and i dont think she objected. then during the end of the movie i wispered in her ear "i love u" and she said i love u 2 and she put her head on my shoulder and i put my head on top of hers. and at the end of the movie i kissed her on the cheek, and she just smiled at me. on the way home she sat on my lap and i fed her pop corn and i hugged her and she grabbed my hands. is this a good sign the relationships going well? and also if its going well how can i keep it going well? i didnt kiss her on the lips cause i didnt want to rush things. and if this is a sign the relationships going bad how can i fix it? thx everybody at afriad to ask! P.S please reply soon!
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Help me!
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is this a good sign the relationships going well?It sure beats a swift kick in the rear. In what possible way could you imagine that it could have gone better? Were you expecting her to ask for your hand in marriage?> and also if its going well how can i keep it going well?Clearly, just keep doing what you're doing.> i didnt kiss her on the lips cause i didnt want to rush things.Sounds reasonable. Maybe you can do that next time you get together, or the time after. If you aim for her lips and she offers you her cheek, no big deal. It just means she wants to go more slowly. But it really sounds like she's into you.> and if this is a sign the relationships going bad how can i fix it? thx everybody at afriad to ask!The best thing you can do is to get yourself tethered to reality. Things are going swimmingly with this girl. There's no need to question everything about every millisecond you're together.> P.S please reply soon!Is this fast enough? I didn't even bother to spell-check.
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BREATHE, BOY!
Seems like everything is going peachy, you both like/love each other, and you have a sense of honour and respect for her...kudos.
Honestly, just go with the flow and do what feels right. That's not to say don't use you're brain, just let yourself enjoy and stop worrying. :smile: -
thx guys! its just that this is my first real relationship and i just wnated to see if it was going well and apperantly it is! u guys r the greatist!
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Wait, you didn't think that went well? What would you have considered "going well" ?
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ok look... i pretty much knew the relationship was going well i just wnated another persons opinion!!! no big deal. and also, next time i kiss her its gonna be on the lips. if she lets me of course. any tips on kissing? and P.S i would NEVER EVER EVER cheat on a girl! its sexist and wrong.
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Keep your mouth closed for the first time, lol Maybe touch her face with your hand, and kiss her lightly. Close your eyes when you're close enough, let your mind focus on your love, and your lips will betray that to her Ah, l'amore!
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You don't want to rush things, but both of you said that you love one another? I guess those three little words have lost their meaning nowadays, geez
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then during the end of the movie i wispered in her ear "i love u" and she said i love u 2 and she put her head on my shoulder and i put my head on top of hers."hmmm....wait, you didnt wanna kiss her on the lips, but you tell her you love her? nothing wrong with it, just confused me for a second. o and btw, i think you did fine . dont worry about it .
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I did notice that, but I didn't say anything about it.Love is an awfully frequently used buzz word nowadays, eh?I told my GF that I loved her after 6 MONTHS of dating (We didn't even have sex till we were about 9 months into it) Maybe I'm just a real nutty traditionalist.
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Love is an awfully frequently used buzz word nowadays, eh?
I say "I love you" a lot. To friends and family. Though, for that special someone, I always explain that there's a difference between "I love you" and "I'm in love with you". I've said "I'm in love with you" to one girl. Things just didn't work out.