How to ask a friend out (without getting tortured)
There is a Girl at School i really like her so much in fact i wank off thinking about her
BUT THERES A PROBLEM
#1 She Is a bit on the Fat Side
#2 She is very very social and never away from her friends
#3 I don't want to risk our strong friendship
#4 I'm ginger and hardly anyone likes me that's why #3
She is called Chantelle
I'm called Daniel
Well, if you can get past her chubbiness and can find some time alone with her, I think you should tell her how you feel. If she turns you down, then move on. And if she does, you guys can continue being friends.
Oh and i also heard her say she doesnt go for gingers when one of her and my friends said you love him really or something like thatshe definetly said i dont go for gingersis this a cover up to her liking me or is she serious
Thats the problem I dont want to risk the friendship and She is always around her friends
Well, if you don't want to risk the friendship, then don't do it. Do you think it's worth risking?
Well there's no way to do it without risking the friendship ... no matter what, it's going to be different (probably awkward if she says no) after you ask her
I Don't know if it is worth risking we are best friends and if i ask her i run the risk of 2 years of torture and sorrow from school mates and losing a huge friendship with this girl on the other hand i run the benefit of having a gorgeous girl that i have fancied for the last 2 yearsits a confusing choice
If it's confusing you this bad, then don't do it. If you aren't willing to risk the friendship you have with this girl, then back off. There are plenty of girls out there.
Yes, asking her would be risking friendship... no matter what words were exchanged.There was one time that I brought up a possible relationship between friends and it went smoothly. I said something like, "have you ever thought about what it would be like for us to be together?"This girl and I were friends for years. Since elementary school even. And we would get together every so often and just talk for hours on end. So, for me to bring up anything we were comfortable talking about it.
"have you ever thought about what it would be like for us to be together?"
that would be a nice catchy phrase to say at the back of a cinema or something
but again friendship
i feel so sick whether or not to ask her
i have never felt so in love than i have ever before
i don't know if its the past girlfriends that i have no confidence in my self as the last 2 ended in tragedy
Am i a wimp as i would do anything to get her but i dont want to risk friendshipi keep geting so close to asking her but i chicken out
Before you get too love sick, I would find out where you stand. Friend ladder or Dating ladder. If you let it be, then you may just be setting yourself for an even further fall in the future.Don't be afraid of change. Change is the only thing we can count on in life.
There are plenty of girls out there. not plenty of girls that like me
to much information
to much information what???
Look at it this way. Plenty of girls like you, but they and you just don't know it yet.
im not going to argue but im GINGER and UGLY
Have you seen the South Park abuot ginger kids?Sry if it's random .. fnuny episode
It's that state of mind that restricts you. You've created a barrier for yourself. Inner self image is more important than external. If you believe your ugly, then you subconciously give off that opinion of yourself through your movements, words, and actions in general.
ok im emailing her now what do i say
