Well I'm 16 and a virgin (don't worry, it's not a religious thing just waiting till im 18) and my bf who I've been together with for a year has fingered me for the first time just a few days ago. He has tried before but every time I told him it hurts so he couldn't go in all the way, so he just gives me pleasure other ways. This time, he did go in all the way and when he fingered me I didn't feel any pleasure I just felt pain. It started hurting less later on but why doesn't it feel good? And if it's only for now, when will it feel good? He did it again for the second time today and once again, it hurt. ?
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Fingering hurts
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i think its normal to hurt at first. it will just take a few times to stop hurting. but just to warn you when you actually go all the way that will probly hurt too.
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yeah its normal. it might be an issue of that ur dry. if so lubricant might help. the reason it hurts is that ur vagina is a muscle that has never been streched b4. just have him move slowly and work his way up to going all the way in. on the thing of sex hurting, i highly stress extra lubricant for this, like buying some from a store or somethign when the time comes.
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Ok thanks for the help.