hi im new herei signed up because i need some advicei really like a boy and this is the first time i ever acted this way when i liked someoneas soon as i walked away from meeting him i started acting like i forgot that i met him. i told my friends i liked him and they knew that i would want to hang out in a certain area of our school because i wanted to see him but i always act like i don't know him or notice him at all and i really don't know why i'm doing it. sometimes i catch him looking at me but i don't think that means anything. i'm acting like i don't know he exists when he's really all i think about. and i really want to stop acting and feeling this way because i think it's really creepy. i really need someone's opinion since i haven't really been able to talk about this. thanks.
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Not sure
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It sounds like you're afraid of something... What are you afraid of?
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mostly im afraid of him not liking me at all and thinking i'm a freak
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Even if he does, is it such a bad thing?Look at it this way. If he's not interested then he's not interested. At least you'll know it sooner than later and you don't have to waste your time. You can easily move on.If he is interested, then it's better for him to know that you may be interested about it than to be completely oblivious to the fact. Otherwise, if he's not the kind of guy to approach he may just end up with a different girl.What is your opinion about this?
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the thing i want to do most is tell him but hes the leader of my group in this monthly study group thing we have in school [thats how we know each other] and its already been really awkward since i've been avoiding him. i was thinking that it would just be easier to forget about my feelings for him, i've been able to do that with other guys but it seems harder now. telling him or giving him hints or even making eye contact would be better than what i'm doing now but i can never bring myself to do anything more than talking to him when we have to talk because of school. that probably made no sense and had nothing to do with what you said sorry.
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In reply to: i was thinking that it would just be easier to forget about my feelings for him, i've been able to do that with other guys but it seems harder now. Don't let life pass you by. Remember that.
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huh, your scarily like me.And websex is right here, I regret avoiding guys or acting uninterested bacause I was scared. I still do it somtimes. Don't let it get the better of you, you have nothing to loose by letting him know your interested