So it started off last year where i had two girls who liked me, Now obviously i had to choose which one i wanted, which was not easy but i did choose one. So i took her on our first date and we watched a movie ate dinner, droped her home and made out. Perfect date. Second time i got to see her i slept over as her rents were out, Now im 18 and shes 18, and she explained over text how she was unsure if we will sleep together which i was fine with...Got to her house and watched movies/made out and eventually i started fingering her and she said to me "are you going to fuck me" excuse the language. And me being a male i did. We did it 3 times in one night/morning, Then i had to leave in the arvo as she had friends comming over. And i noticed she was acting differently but said nothing. Left the house and drove home. I then get a message saying how it was to fast of a step for her and that, so i replied with a thats fine i understand but ever since then she has acted weird and not the same as she used to talk to me b4 we had sex. Now i was so confused and anoyyed because i really liked this girl and thought we may date later on as she was not ready for a bf at the time which i was aware of. But how can sex ruin thigns like that its unfair and i got my heart broken because i thought with my penis... And then when i went to the other chick she has a bf.. So now i have no girls and its just not fair! Can anyone help me in to explaining what the fuck happened?!?!