hey, i just had the weirdest thing happen o.o i was sitting in bed, drifting back to sleep, when i for some reason, very out of the blue, I started questioning my sexuality... up till now i've pretty much thought the idea of me kissing a guy was gross, and all of a sudden i was thinking about it and it didnt seem like that bad a thing... i mean, it was like this weird switch... kinda weirding me out how it just changed like that, i mean, now i kind of want to kiss a guy just to see what its like... ahh... erm.. anyone ever have anything like this happen? im shaking right now... erm this is kinda freaking me out... only because its a HUGE change, and extreamly sudden, and out of no where.. gah...
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A question about curiosity
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Curiousity is fine. I have felt that way quite a few times. It will pass on...
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oye, then i have some hope that my sexualty and personality are some-what stable... woot.. thanks i appreciate the commentand i've calmed down a bit now.. not shaking anymore anyway... heh
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i'm pretty sure a lot of people have had those moments where the things we thought we'd never do are the things which interest us the most-for the moment lol.
i think it's just common to ask yourself 'what if...'
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No one is totally straight or totally gay. As creatures on earth, we're all pretty much bi-sexual.
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Originally Posted By: froggy947
No one is totally straight or totally gay. As creatures on earth, we're all pretty much bi-sexual.
I think that is a rather narrow minded comment. You can actually be totally homosexual, or hetrosexual. It is entirely possible.
The question of sexuality has to be based on AT LEAST two things: Sexual attraction and, emotional attraction.
If you're a guy and find sex with a guy repulsive, and would never date one, and you indeed have those feelings for a female; you are straight. Vise-versa (or make up your own combination) a man who is sexually, and emotionally attracted to to another guy, and finds the same with a woman repulsive; he really is homosexual.
As far as the OP is concerned; that is probably more based on human curiosity, rather than a sexual yearning. If the OP or anyone feels comfortable about it, try it out and see what you like; you'll figure it out fairly quickly, I'm sure.
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I disagree. I've read a lot of books and done some research on human sexuality and believe that we are all bi-sexual.In today's society and culture, we're forced into believing that everyone is either homosexual or heterosexual. But, in fact, everyone has tendencies for the same and opposite sex.Getting people to look deep within to understand this thought, however, is difficult. Most don't want to listen to it.
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I did not say that it is impossible; it's just that is is not wholly true.There still a number of people who have never had a homosexual experience, never attempted nor thought about, and have no desire to perform it (Perhaps even never had a fantasy about it) It's all possible...so I like to refrain from permently someone a bi-sexual, where infact they may actually not be (Regarding sexual and emotional feelings)
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but that percentage of people is most likely so small that it shouldnt even be brought up. i know that i have had a "what if" experience, i never did anything but it seemed intreasting, if someone says they have never fantized or thought of doing something with the same sex then they are most likely lieing
