Hi, I'm Jack, firstly I think websites like this are a massive help to may people!
Me and my girlfriend have been having sex now for just over a month. And have done it about 20 times.
She's not on the pill, but we have used spermicidal lubricated extra safe condoms and KY jelly. Not once has one broke, split or slipped.
I am worried tho because I have only jus recently read that sperm does not die on contact with the air which I thought it does.
We indulge in some foreplay before intercourse, and mutually masturbate each other only a little to get each other excited.
But what are the chances of fluid or "pre-cum" from my penis getting onto her hands or my hands, and rubbing off onto the condom when she or I am putting it on, and therefore entering into the vagina whilst being on the condom?
Does the condom kill any fluid or "pre-cum"?
If any pre-cum were on my finger and I touch her vagina whilst inserting the penis is it possible she could get pregnant? considering that it had been on my fingers for about 30 seconds before touching the vagina?
Help much appreciated!!