i like this one guy for a while and we were friends. then this weekend we got closer and he knew that i liked him more then friends. he started to invite me over to his house more and he started to put moves on me like tickling, making out, putting his hand up my shirt and fingering me. he kept asking me if i was ok with it and i said yes i'm just shy. after two days of him doing that i asked him on the internet in a message if he like me as just a friend? and he replied back, no y?? what makes you think that?? and i told him i was just curious. then that day he IM's me and tells me that he feels different around me then when we were jsut friends and he felt weird and also that it wasn't a good thing. he asked me if we could just be friends and i told him yes we can.i was really hurt because he told me that day that he like me more then a friend.did i do something worng????do you know why he did what he did??sorry it's so long you just need to know that whole story i guess to know what's going on.if you can answer my questions i would REALL REALLY appriciate it!!!!
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It hurts so much!.........did i do something wrong
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Hon you didn't do anything wrong, i think hes a tad confused about how he feels or just being an idiot.....my advice would be to back off a little and see what happens.
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He either just wanted to mess around and do things, or he's just confused.
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He's an asshole and don't know what he's missing!
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This is why I detest the thought of fooling around by either sex after just a little time. Have some patience guys, make it worth something.
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myabe you should talk to him in person and asked him why he changed his mind so quickly? the problem with IM is that you can never really tell how the other person is feeling so i think you should talk to him in person, tell him how you feel about him and see what he says... good luck!