Hey, im 14 and i have a girlfriend that lives 130 miles from me and her mom dont know bout us dating and we have been dating for 3 months now. as couples do we have steamy conversations. well last night we had one of those moments were we get into some steamy topics and we were talkin about doin stuff. well my girlfriend fell asleep and when she woke up her mom had read the conversation, her mom is pissed at her and shes not aloud to talk to me or see me but she talks to me anyways,she sayd no one can keep us from seeing us other,and were not goin to break up cuz we love each other way to much. ohh.. and her mom absolutely hates me now. she thinks im a big pervert. Any good advice that i should think about? Thanks if you can give me any advice.
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Long distance realationship
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have you ever met this girl in person before?
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wow nice question amanda...well that reallys cuks buddy... umm theres really nothing you can do! just keep talking to her! rebellions the way!
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but about long distance relationships, my gf is from belgium, and i've been going out with her for 2 months, but i feel like i've known her forever..and i definatly want to try a long distance relationship with her because she is unlike any girl i have ever met before its a great feeling...
anyone else tried something like this.. Canada to europe realtionship?
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yea
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I really don't see how a "long distance" relationship can work for someone in your age bracket. What are you going to do wait another 4 years before you can see each other regularly?? I just don't get it.
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well man i'm almost 19... and this is how it work, she is coming back to canada for 2 months in the summer then i'd go back with her for 2 months, and continue like this until were done school... and if you felt like we did then you might understand it
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Yeah but you're 19 and that's a bit different.
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i agree with you, at 14 i wouldn't really consider it love, you don't even know who you are yet
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When I was your age I had a long distance relationship. Well long distance for me (Los angeles to San Deigo).You can't really say your going out.. you never see eachother, and while you both may think its ok.. its not. You'll either both realize its kind of pointless, one will give up on the other, or you or both of you will be depressed because you cant see your significant other.My only advice for you is harsh but I feel I have to say it anyway. Break it off before someone gets hurt. Your better ending it now and "let it burn" and still remain friends than having one of you break up with the other one and someone getting hurt.If you keep in contat and remain friends.. who knows what can happen in a few years?
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yeah its a really tough situation man, because she just the best girl i have ever met i don't really know how to explain it....
And the possiblity of someone "getting hurt" is worth the chance, i would rather say that i tried it then wish years later that i had actually tried it and wonder "what could have..."
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we see each other like 3 time a week but its every other week and we see each ohter on weekends so we get to see each other and besides its been 4 months that we have been together
