I'm scared . . .

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About losing my girlfreind, Her dad has said we can't see eachother anymore. Before he had just said we couldn't see eachother for a while. But all of a sudden he says that yesterday, and well i got a note from my girlfreind saying she was thinking about breaking up with me. But she was also saying she doesn't want too do that. But one of her freinds was trying to get her too cause she said since we can't see eachother but every so often in school, well everyday in the morning and before we leave. Even though i don't want to break up, i would understand if she did because i'm sure she wouldnt want to be with anyone she can bearly see.Fuck my life.

Oh i forgot to add. What can we do? My girlfreind said we could wait a year and try asking about being able to see eachother again. but i'm afraid of what she may do if he say's no. I was thinking it isn't long till we're both driving so i figure that would allow us to see eachother.

Why doesn't the father want you two to see each other?

He first got mad at us cause we were talking on the phone late (about 30 mintues longer then we were allowed)That's all he's ever said.He doesn't seem to like me cause he likes to talk behind my back, what a pussy.

He sounds like a real asshole

Yea, I knew a guy like this once; trying to prevent my GF from seeing me. He was such a dick-wad that I actually had to drop off and pick her up FROM THE CURB, otherwise he would have an intense yelling and screaming fit to the poor girl when she got home.I found the same thing too; he only picks on the weaker people to thier face; but has no problem being a big-man through a third-party.

Yeah and the bad thing is anytime he here's about me he takes the anger out on her, and will just yell and complain for about a week. But we deicided we weren't going to break up, because in hugh school we'd see eachother more, and as i said we'll soon both m driving.

I am so so so sorry to hear this. My ex and I had the same problem, hence, she is now the ex I don't want to bring bad news, but I have to say that it is hard to work something like this out. My ex's parents had her whole family against her on dating me. What a bunch of snobs, just because I wasn't Christian! !They yelled at her, took away certain privilages. Trust me, if this guy doesn't want her to see you, he will lock her in the basement if he has to. These stubborn parents like this will stop at NOTHING to get you to seperate. Sometimes I think they really are just doing it all to show they are right... as IF they are concerned for the safety of their children!Main point, your relationship probably won't work out Eventually you'll both just get sick of trying and give up. There's only so much bullshit a person can take, whether they love another person or not

The best thing with parents who are obsessed about religion or race; is that they choose a mate for thier child that ends up being the worst piece of shit in the world to him/her.

Ironic justice is a bitch....

Originally Posted By: GreywolfHe sounds like a real asshole You stole EXACTLY what I was thinking when I read the "30 minutes over" post.Originally Posted By: Tewem NanI don't want to bring bad news, but I have to say that it is hard to work something like this out. My ex's parents had her whole family against her on dating me. What a bunch of snobs, just because I wasn't Christian! !They yelled at her, took away certain privilages.Don't you just love non-judgemental, friendly, righteous, saintly Christians? :PAnywho, I think it's really good for both of you that you aren't going to break up just because her dad's an asshole. Like you said, you'll get to see her more in high school, and you will both be driving soon, so it's going to get better.

Your gf must love you deeply. I can imagine that she argues with her father about this a lot, and things inside her house won't be so easy. So, I really respect the fact that she must also try really hard to keep your relationship.If her father interferes again, try to remain calm and discuss about it without any stress or panic. Even if you respect your father, it doesn't mean that you have to blindly follow orders from him. Actually, if you're both in love, I think/hope that no one can be an obstacle here.

Oh she does, my freind (who is also my girlfreinds best freind) was telling me she was crying at the though of breaking up. She argues with him like you wouldn't belive, her step dad's a pain in the ass.She doesn't like giving him respect, cause of the way he treats her. She deserves better.

Well ok then when i get to school tomorow, we can talk this out a bit. I'll just say when i said we can do about the car and high school thing.