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Originally Posted By: Steve_A> counselors aren't for meWhy do people keep saying that? Have you tried it and not had it work out well, or are you just above all that? Tried it. Just didn't work... I mean, it just didn't make a difference in my life. And right now I don't know where to turn to handle my problems, because right now there seems to be so many...

Quote:I finally realized... it's meThis is actually a very positive thing, because if it's everyone else there's not much you can do about it, but if it's you, you can change. You're not doomed to be disliked for the rest of your life.I was a rather unpleasant person at school, too sure that I was right, too contemptuous of other people. It was a slow process, but I got better as I slowly started realising how little I knew and how much other people could teach me. I'm sure you can change too.

Well, I don't know.. I don't know what it is exactly. I don't want to change my personality, because it makes me who I am, even if that means most people except for a select few don't get along well with me.

With these people it was because I wasn't always running, or because I didn't follow orders well, and I wanted to do my own thing even though I was on a team that counts on teamwork. Although something like that I don't mind changing, as that would be a good thing I suppose.

There's a deep personality that makes you who you are, but how it is expressed on the surface can change, and does change even without willing it.

It was mostly about not being a team player in airsoft.. that I'd rather do my own thing and have fun doing whatever I felt like instead of following orders to the "T" so we have the best chance to win.But my biggest problem I think is that once I get pushed to a certain point, I just go off, and it almost always makes things a lot worse.Thanks for the input.

We all change, it's a part of life. Don't give up. Things will get better.

If you were my kid youd be well behaved, youd never dare to talk that shit to me, trust me, ask my kids.my kids have seen me pull people over counters and bounce them off the floor, my kids have seen me beat the fuck out of 4 people at one time for knocking my then 5 year old son to the ground and laughing at him as they walked out of a gas staion and I was walking in with my son in tow. My kids have seen what happens when peole treat me like shit, get in my face or tell me what it is I will and will not do. My kids are not stupid enough to ever take a swing at me. One is now 14 and bigger than I am, size and weight, he thought he was tough till I wore gloves and let him go bare fisted, I dont think Ill have any more problems with him for a few more years. You think I flamed you? your a fucking idiot. I gave you a no bullshit, honest response that wasnt meant to spare feelings ro cater to your fucking needs. It was in defense of parents with little ass wipe kids like you that think they make the rules and that thier parents are to have no lifes that dont revolve around that spoiled little fucking brat.You turn 18 son, give me a call, Ill be more than happy to teach you a fucking lesson in running your mouth, letting it write checks your ass cant cash.You will get no understanding from me, Im on your mothers side, her fucking house, her fucking rules, dont like it?MOVE

Sure, maybe you didn't flame me. But you can still tell it like it is with no bullshit AND be a little bit nicer about it. It really isn't that hard. And I'd like it if you weren't so quick to jump at conclusions, like how you automatically assumed I said ANY of the shit I posted to my mom.Originally Posted By: GrvtykllrYou turn 18 son, give me a call, Ill be more than happy to teach you a fucking lesson in running your mouth, letting it write checks your ass cant cash.Assault and battery? I think I've heard of that.You think that being macho and "having balls," trying to show your authority with physical force makes you a man? Give me a break. It does nothing but make you look like an immature bully, having to solve your problems with violence, but do you ever stop to think that maybe it'd be better if you thought about shit before you go around trying to fuck everyone up for not being perfect?And when did I say I actually said this shit to her? I never said ANY of the shit to her that I posted on here. That's the whole REASON I posted it on here, so I could take out my frustration and tell people how I feel about the shit, but I didn't say any of that shit to her. You really think I'm that much of a "punk ass?"Yeah, that's a real nice way to go through life. Telling it like it is with no bullshit is fine, but if you make someone feel a lot worse because you beat them into the ground about something you don't know all the details about it isn't as helpful as it could be.The fact is, I never said any of that shit to my mom. I just posted it on here. And all I'm saying is that you can still tell it like it is and be nice about it. Unless that makes you feel like less of a man, because maybe it'd hurt your ego to be nice about what you say, even when you're saying something they won't like to hear.

ok people lets stop the fightingDragonfly - chance might have come across to you as nasty, however if you check his posts you will see thats how he is, straight forward and no mincing his words.......Chance - i think you will find people agree with what you saidthat said, stop the insults and the stupid threats please both of ya!

Originally Posted By: ~AngelWitch~that said, stop the insults and the stupid threats please both of ya! That's fine Angel.. no more of that now. Just wanted to let him know, and say what I thought about it now that nothing crazy is going on. I have no desire to argue with him anymore, and now I'm just kind of giving my input on it and maybe get some of his back.

At last... a truce????

I have never called a truce, with anyone, online or in real life.

ok then think of it as an angel inforced silence chance, you can keep your record of no truces unscathed LOLim warning ya don't make me get all angelic on your ass LMAO

angelic on my ass?
Im suddenly having images of a witch with a strapon...

wouldn't be the first time LMAOhowever i just meant please don't make me get all bossy cos its not me at all as you can all tell innocent expression

well post some pics of that, lets see if it makes me tingle like lish.

that is not allowed chance and you know it bad, bad man, don't try and taint my angelic reputation or rust my shiny halo (oooooer for some reason that last bit sounds rude LOL)

well you could always email it out, or post it on your myspace, but please, if you do, no more cam phone pics, the quality is just shit.

point taken hon, ill make sure i get a friend with a decent camera for that pic LMAO

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