im 15 nearly 16, im bi (like looks of boys but have the feelings for girls)ive got a friend, and i like him and i want to do things with him. but i dont know what to do or what to say to him, ive been trying to send signals but i dont think he knows but i dont want to just tell him because he mmight say no or something i just dont know what to do tommy
Should i ???
yeah this is what im worried about... ill just try and keep my fantasies quite
i don't think he meant to tell you to give up hope though.
i've done stuff with my good friends also, there's easy ways to tell if they're into it or not.
if he's really your friend, he might get a little weirded out but he won't stop being your friends or spread rumors about you.
worst case scenario, you can tell him you were kidding if he says "no way!"
btw i'm bi and 14 years old.
I have done some things with my buddies when I was younger. It worked out well for me. We spent a lot of time when we did sleepovers and talked about our dreams,our hopes, sex, girls, masturbating technique and things we liked and didn't like. I remember asking my best friend one night how big his dick was when he was hard and I told him I wondered if mine was a normal size too. He asked to see it, so I got hard and showed him. it went on from there. We had a wonderful friendship for many, many years. We did stuff together all the way up until he got married. Now he has a wife and 4 kids. we're still close and email each other, but that's it.Be careful dude. You'll know if they are open to anything. If they're not than just quickly joke it off so he doesn't suspect anything and leave it at that. Best safe and smart. Good luck
thanx for that ...im still not sure if i should say anything .... i might go with the "joke" thing .. but ill have to build my confidence up abit more, well im england the culture is kida "boys dont have sleepovers" so its not relly like i can do that, but im sure ill tell him ........(sometime)