Alright, so I'll give everyone here a quick background on my situation. A few months ago I'm hanging out with a friend. Her friend bumps into us, I think she seems pretty nice and a fun person. Now at school we talk and stuff, hang out on occasion. Eventually well...I like her. Flash forward to today. We're in gym class doing our social dance unit. Right now, line dancing to be exact. Im joking around with my friend and her, and it's all good. Then I learn that she's cousins with my friend... is it awkward if I like her? And in what way would I go about telling her how I feel. I think I should check with my friend first just to make sure that it's alright I'm thinking... but I don't really know how to tell her how I feel either. I'm so confused now, if anyone could offer some advice it would be appreciated.
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What to do?
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Well I was just talking on msn with her and out of nowhere she asked "who do you like?". I told her she had to answer first and she said this other guys name. I don't really know what to tell her now... cause if I tell her how I feel, it's going to be awkward, but I know she won't drop the topic.
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Well, having a thing for your friend's brother/sister would usually call for a chat with your friend. But I don't think it would be required of you to tell your friend if its just a cousin.
But I would actually talk to the friend, because she may help you with your romantic intentions.
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It's a guy... now she talked to him about our conversation so i might as well tell him i guess.
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Oh sorry, I meant "he".So did you tell the girl that you liked her?
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she had to go for supper. Apparently she's not cousins with my friend they just decided to screw with my head. So I yelled at my friend for a bit. Don't really know what to do. She may have said that guys name just not to say mine since she seemed so interested, she might actually like him. She was asking me for a half hour and wouldnt stop...
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Well, I suppose you can tell her how you feel, if you want to actually go further than just friends or even just explore the possibility.Her asking you who you like would have been a good oppertunity, but you felt uncomfortable telling her because of the complications, so there is no need to think "if only" thoughts. If she brings it back up when she returns then you might think about telling her. If she doesn't, or if you're not up for the challenge, you can tell her in a day or two.
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Alright, new update on the situation. I told her that I liked her, she said "look, we're buds and everything but I just don't think that I'm ready to date." And now it's really weird. The part that hurts most is that everytime I like a girl they say that we're "friends, but I don't know if we can be anything more". Why do I always have to be the friend? This sucks...
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Well sadly not every girl can like you, its usually a minority of the girl you know that do, so too often it seems that we are just constantly rejected. But don't let it hit you too hard. Be proud that you atleast tried, grown men are scared to try sometimes.