im so frustrated right now, i dont fit in anywhere. i have plenty of friends but they all belong to seperate social circles so i rarely get invited anywhere. I never have any money...and am in no position to get any, not allowed a job til after my exams...so i cant afford to go out and meet new people, besides im horrible at making friends. Im too much of a rocker to fit in with the 'normals' and im not hardcore rocker enough to fit in with most of those scenes...i feel so un confident in myself. And as if that wasnt enough, theres a girl who i used to like...not sure if i still do...who said she likes me even though shes involved with someone. Shes so sweet and caring but notorious for messing boys around. I dont even remember why i started but i been ignoring her lately, well not flat out ignoring but more being cold. shes bugging me to tell her whats up and so are all my friends. I just want to be with her but she insists on being all vague about it, like 'oh i like you but im not sure about my boyfriend' and blah blah, it feels like no matter what i do ill get burned. I dont know...what should i do?-Max
What the hell do i do?
First of all, Africa, you need to be accepting of yourself. If you are always worrying whether you are acceptable to other people, you won't be yourself enough to be able to meet other people as an equal as you ought.Why can't a rocker be friends with people who aren't? Friendship isn't a matter of fitting in - it's people respecting each other as different people, though with some common ground.Girls tend to respect guys more if the guys respect themselves. If you are more yourself, I think you'll find she is more upfront.