Cum without touching?

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do you have an actual orgasm, or is it just precum coming out?

i almost did.. i was making out and she could totally feel my boner but i didn't want to make a big mess

Originally Posted By: whatever2do you have an actual orgasm, or is it just precum coming out? Spontaneous ejaculations can happen with or without an orgasm. Since orgasm and ejaculation are two distinct things that don't have to happen together (although they usually do), sometimes a spontaneous ejaculation can be just the ejaculation without an orgasm. I've had these, and you get the contractions of ejaculation, but without the intense pleasure of the orgasm. Also the contractions are much slower so the semen flows out almost in a continues flow for several seconds, followed by a contraction, then another flow for several seconds, etc., rather than rapid fire spurts with strong contractions in a normal orgasm. Almost like peeing cum, instead of squirting it if that makes any sense. A spontaneous ejaculation with orgasm is usually caused by some sort of stimulation, either mental (intense sexual thoughts, fantasizing, etc.), or external (such as vibrations while riding a bike, riding in a car, etc.)

i used to take ballroom dancing lessons and i always got a ton of precum halfway through the lesson. Im usually oblivious until it drips onto my leg. never came without some form of physical touching though. perhaps thats something i'll try.

That's how I had my first orgasm was just throwing it in to the post as an idea...

During showering, if you have a handle-type shower-head (or whatever theyre called) you can use water to bring you to orgasm. I dunno if that counts...

I did once or twice when I was about 12, mind you thats when I could ejaculate under 30 seconds. Now I'm lucky if I can get 5 minuites even with porn. So I virtually have no imagination now-a-days. I can see how that will come at a dis-advantage later.