hello there everyone! i have a question about a minor problem that im having. me and my gf began having sex last week but when we try to do it, i feel too excited and my erection goes away when i dont put it anywhere (i.e. in her). whenever i try to get it back, it fdoesnt get hard, only bigger and fatter and it feels like if i try too hard im gonna blow one all over the place. this is very frustrating and im thinking maybe me and her should cut short the foreplay and get to business faster. for the record, whenever me and her do any other sexual activity or even randomly, it works fine. im just wondering why in the moment of truth he goes away. thanks for any help you can give.
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Hmm
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Plain and simple.... You're too nervous.
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thats probly right. and the fact that it hasnt worked isnt giving me a lot of confidence. any advice? or should i just try to relax and enjoy it next time?
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Yes, don't feel you have to do everything and make a home run. Just do what you feel comfortable with.